[numberonemommy]

Hi...

So yeah I have a 9 month old little girl and a 19 month old stepson as I've said in previous posts, totally off this topic though, and my husband and I have been talking about getting pregnant again around Dec/Jan... so I wanted to get as much info as I can before we actually really focus on it.

Obviously TRYING isn't the right way to go, because we've actually been trying for a couple months now, and I finally just gave up out of disappointment. Now we've figured we could wait a couple more months.

What are some great tips for actually getting pregnant? I would love for my daughter and her older brother to have a little brother or sister, and I really don't want them to have that much of an age difference, so I don't want to be trying for years to conceive again, and with my daughter it took the fourth month (when I actually stopped trying, except for propping myself up, etc) to actually get pregnant. So relaxing is key. What's the best position to be in, what foods should both my husband and I stay away from, what activities should we do or not do, etc? Thanks!