[lovesick2012]

Me and my boyfriend have been dating for about seven months now. We fell in love fast and planned to move in together only after 4 months. We got into a few big fights, and now he is becoming distant. He wants to still work things out but I feel it is only because he doesn't have the heart to break up with me. He's even said things like 'we're growing apart,' and 'i love you but I'm not in love with you.' it hurts so much because I left my place and started over just to be with him. And now when things get tough he wants to bail out. That's not what real love is about. He's 22 and I'm 23. I'm only his second serious relationship and we work together! It's going to be so hard if he leaves me. Right now we are on a week break so he can clear his head and see if he's happier without me, but I'm afraid it's postponing the enivitable. What do I do??

[smoothy]

Its been only 7 months... he has decided the relationship isn't what he though tit would be. No big surprise there... it happens in most relationships before they get to the point engagement is even considered.

You move on and find someone else... when you have found the right one it will get stronger over the next 3+ years and north withering away after only 7 months.

Its life, we all deal with it and have... it builds charater and teaches you how to spot things earlier.

And incidentally... if you "need a break" from each other that alone is indicative of a relationship that wasn't meant to be.