[emma2868]

I dated this guy and we were in love, all of a sudden he started treating me bad, getting all crancky and having a bad temper with me for no reason. Then I tell him lets have a talk, he calls and he is like sometimes I wake up feeling you are my girlfriend, sometimes I wake up feeling you are just my friend. So we broke up since he was falling out of love.

A month later, he still acts too intimate, when he travels he sends me messages saying he arrived safe, if I don't reply he asks what's up with me. I don't know, is he in denial or he feels bad he hurt my feelings by breaking up or what's going on? I am keeping my distance and trying to act casual, but he calls me babe and he tried to kiss me last time before he travelled and I held back and refused.

I don't know what is this.. what do you guys think?

[odinn7]

I think you need to remind him that you're broken up. Sounds like maybe he has forgotten that part of it.

[Homegirl 50]

You are not together anymore so he should not be intimate at all. He could be just wanting to having you on the side. Tell him to leave you alone.

[talaniman]

Tell him you don't do friends with benefits and stop being so available to him, as in never be available to him.