I dated this guy and we were in love, all of a sudden he started treating me bad, getting all crancky and having a bad temper with me for no reason. Then I tell him lets have a talk, he calls and he is like sometimes I wake up feeling you are my girlfriend, sometimes I wake up feeling you are just my friend. So we broke up since he was falling out of love.

A month later, he still acts too intimate, when he travels he sends me messages saying he arrived safe, if I don't reply he asks what's up with me. I don't know, is he in denial or he feels bad he hurt my feelings by breaking up or what's going on? I am keeping my distance and trying to act casual, but he calls me babe and he tried to kiss me last time before he travelled and I held back and refused.

I don't know what is this.. what do you guys think?

I think you need to remind him that you're broken up. Sounds like maybe he has forgotten that part of it.

You are not together anymore so he should not be intimate at all. He could be just wanting to having you on the side. Tell him to leave you alone.

Tell him you don't do friends with benefits and stop being so available to him, as in never be available to him.