[Extraordinary]

Is it possible to get joint custody with my daughter residing with me I signed an agreement on my lawyers advice to give her father sole custudy cause I had a case open with dcf for drug use at the time this was six months ago I have been clean the whole six months and every time I see her she is begging to come back she is only seven and she sleeps on the couch in his living room what can I do please help

[smoothy]

Is it possible to get joint custody with my daughter residing with me I signed an agreement on my lawyers advice to give her father sole custudy cause I had a case open with dcf for drug use at the time this was six months ago I have been clean the whole six months and everytime I see her she is begging to come back she is only seven and she sleeps on the couch in his living room what can I do please help

Six months clean is a very short period... you would have to go to court and convince them which is going to be an uphill battle.

[Extraordinary]

Yeah I believe your right smooth that sounds like the same thing the judge was trying to say its hard because I know I was never a bad mother I am doing all I can I am on the verge of completing 2 drug programs,a family enrichment program and I go to counceling once a month one thing that's holding me back as well is a hair follicle test it came back positive in spite of over 40 urine tests coming back negative I don't know how anything is still able to show up I am paying a lawyer $200hr but until the hair test comes up clean I guess I will not need him any more your right it will be a long journey but I hope I will be able to get the joint custody where she resides with me in the long run

[smoothy]

Just stay clean... stick with it... and in time, you might succeed... in any case, remaining clean is a triumph in itself.