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    Jul 10, 2011, 08:40 PM
    Is this girl interested or not??
    I'm really into this girl, but I don't know if I've already blown it, if she's not interested or what! I met her the other night, old friend I haven't seen forever, and we were drinking in a group. Eventually, we pealed off away from the group and ended up talking for like 3 hours (drunk I must say), holding each other, talking about how we should move in together, get married yada yada. I know a lot of that was stupid, but I think there was something to it, we seemed to get along really great and I r eally liked talking to her. I walked her home, we pledged to talk tomorrow, feel the same way tomorrow, it all made sense.

    When I woke up the next day, I didn't call her or anything. I texted her asking how she was feeling after the liquor and she gave me a short answer in a text. She texted me from the bar that night wanting me to come out drinking. I said no, I didn't want to drink again, but to let me know when she got out. She said good, and that I suck anyway. IS THAT A JOKE? WAS SHE PISSED BECAUSE I DIDN'T TEXT HER THE NEXT MORNING?? She said she would let me know when she got out, but I suppose she forgot while she was drinking. I don't know. The next day, I texted her asking her to talk. I got no answer, so by the end of the day, I told her we were drunk, let's just forget about it. She sent me a short text not agreeing but changing the subject, telling me sorry I didn't respond and then changing the subject.

    I am so goddamn confused...
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    Jul 10, 2011, 10:39 PM

    Sounds like a drunk thing to me.
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    Jul 11, 2011, 04:42 AM

    Chalk it up to too much to drink and ignore it.
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    Jul 11, 2011, 01:55 PM

    Big red flag when the only time you click is when you both are drunk. And if she only likes you when you're ripped, that's something to leave alone.
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    Jul 12, 2011, 01:36 PM
    She seems like a *****! I'd leave it alone. Move on. Do better!
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    Jul 12, 2011, 04:26 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Tubesox View Post
    She seems like a *****! I'd leave it alone. Move on. Do better!
    That is a bit much. Why does she have to to be a ***** She didn't do anything he didn't do, he just tried to get in touch with her again. They both need to stop getting drunk and thinking things can work when you only know each other while under the influence.
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