[Irishgirl]

Just a quick question for you boys. I've kind of been seeing someone on and off for about seven months, just when were out and meet up, plus I work in his local pub, and he blows serious hot and cold. At the weekend he was at a wedding about 30 miles from where we live and he organised a taxi to come get me and paid for it! Which let me tell you wasn't cheap. I get the odd text from him during the week but come weekend I'm inundated with texts and calls from him. Just want to confirm this thought but he's not looking for anything serious is he? Not sure if I do either but just don't see the point in continuing with this if it isn't going anywhere. Am I wasting my time?

[Wildcat21]

Hey Irishgirl,

The question is - do you want anymore out of this?? There is a lot you could do to turn up his interest level at this point.

Do you see him every weekend?

He may be playing it cool with you. He may be comfortable with what you have, but you could change it.

Sounds like a good guy. For him to send a cab he might be looking to get serious - he may be smart and not ruin what you have (I've done that) and yet he may want to turn it up, but wants to make sure you are comfortable with it.

[johnn007]

I think its up to you now that if you want to hang up with this guy than you can but only if you feel comfortable but first find out is he a good guy or just trying to be good.ok the power is yours whatever you want to do you can do it but just ask from your inner soul that do you want to do this if answer comes in yes than go ahead for it and leave the rest to GOD.

[sweety]

You need to sit down and talk to him or ask him straightly what he wants, because judging the situation ahead may not be the right decision you made so just ask him if he likes you and if he wants a long term or short term relationship.