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    #81

    Oct 18, 2009, 01:38 PM

    That's what he said.
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    #82

    Oct 18, 2009, 01:43 PM

    Do u still feel like you want him back? I feel like that everyday!
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    #83

    Oct 18, 2009, 01:52 PM

    Yes. I would love to have him back. I miss everything about him.
    Its so hard.
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    #84

    Oct 18, 2009, 02:00 PM

    Sigh
    This really does suck!
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    #85

    Oct 19, 2009, 01:30 AM

    I'm really struggling today, I am back to work after a week off and feel like crying
    Really miss him
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    #86

    Oct 19, 2009, 01:46 AM
    I hope work will be a distraction for you.
    Are your workmates aware of the breakup?
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    #87

    Oct 19, 2009, 01:46 AM

    Hello.

    Its hard going back into the real world..

    But if you look around,life goes on..

    Your not going to heal overnight,but it will get better.

    Get stuck into work.
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    #88

    Oct 19, 2009, 01:52 AM

    Yeah I know I will! Just keep wondering if he is missing me as much!
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    #89

    Oct 19, 2009, 01:57 AM
    We can't know that-generally Id say both people might miss their ex after a breakup but its not a given.
    You will feel better with time and where you are now its about one day at the time until you get to a place where most days you ll be fine.
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    #90

    Oct 19, 2009, 02:37 AM

    I know! I just wish I had a clue if he does or doesn't I guess I should assume he doesn't! Will that make it easier!
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    #91

    Oct 19, 2009, 02:42 AM

    Yes it does make it easier if you can stop worrying about their thoughts or feelings.
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    #92

    Oct 19, 2009, 03:10 AM

    The last time he text asking if it was a good idea for him to go back to uni to do nursing I said yes and we were texting back and forth about it.
    Then he said no contact remember does this mean he is not missing me do you think?
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    #93

    Oct 19, 2009, 04:07 AM
    Benson-it could mean that -it could mean a number of things-the thing is we can't read his mind.
    Only he knows what he is thinking.
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    #94

    Oct 19, 2009, 04:14 AM

    :) damn it! Sorry I'm expecting everyone to provide me with answers! And its not going to happen!
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    #95

    Oct 19, 2009, 04:16 AM

    We want you to get better and get over this.
    As you will-give it time.
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    #96

    Oct 19, 2009, 08:14 AM

    Ahhhhhh I want to txt him something ridiculous like I miss u! But I cant
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    #97

    Oct 19, 2009, 08:22 AM

    Dont-stay strong-switch your phone off.
    Breaking NC only adds to your confusion.
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    #98

    Oct 19, 2009, 09:07 AM

    I know this sounds a bit pathetic but his flatmate who I'm good friends txt earlier in the week so see how I was. Is it a bad idea to txt him to find out how the ex is getting on?
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    #99

    Oct 19, 2009, 09:15 AM
    It s not a good idea to try to get any information from anyone close to an ex.
    Whatever information you d be given would just make you overanalyse what they say.
    Nc s a tough path but it works.
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    #100

    Oct 19, 2009, 09:52 AM

    Yeah I just feel dead upset today and I was OK yesterday!

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