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    hrsegrl Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Dec 4, 2007, 11:32 AM
    Am I paranoid
    Hey,
    Well here I go, I have known a guy for a few years and just found out a couple of weeks ago that he liked me, after I have gotten out of a 2 year relationship with someone else, well we hit off, we would text, Im and call each other, well I got sick one night at his house and left without an explanation, since then he has been distant, I did tell him the reason why I left that evening, but since then its been different, well we got to be able to talk last night, and he told me that he didn't want to get serious right now, he did tell me that in the beginning, and that I had just gotten out of a long relationship and he was afraid if we didn't go slow it would kill our friendship, well now I am confused, does he like me or not? He has told my mother that he has commitment issues and he tends to run, I am just afraid that he is running, he did tell her that he does like me, but wants to go really slow, start as friends and see what happens "time will tell" well I am thinking on waiting for him, he is worth it, he does resect me and we have not had sex, am I paranoid that he is going to run or should I just let it go and move on?

    Thank you for listening
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    450donn Posts: 1,821, Reputation: 239
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    Dec 4, 2007, 11:44 AM
    Commitment issues tells me that he is not mature enough for a long term relationship. Cut your losses and move on.

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