[drummergirl6]

Least you have the friends you have to pick you up :D

[dragonbaby914]

This is true hon thanks for the cheering up part:)

[drummergirl6]

Hey dragon just in case you are interested, she never replied Friday so I messaged her Saturday asking if she had a good time. We had like a 3 min conversation and then she didn't reply for ages, but she then randomly messaged me her number and said to drop her a text. I think we text for a little while, but she was out with friends getting drunk... so do I wait a few days see if she texts me and then maybe text her if she doesn't?

[dragonbaby914]

Hi sweetie how did it go?

[drummergirl6]

Read my post above you one I posted :D

[dragonbaby914]

Wow I missed that one sorry hun. This girl is making me nervous, did your 3 min long conversation go good at least? I would text this girl, just a hello hi how are you? If she answers try to have another conversation if she doesn't respond wait for her to come to you with a response.

[drummergirl6]

Yeah been talking to her most the day I asked if she wanted to meet for a drink sometime she said there is a party on weds for her friend and she invited me and my mate, we been have a good conversation today its gone from getting to know each other to more of friendly banter texts that make you laugh if you get me

[dragonbaby914]

Awe I'm glad to hear hun.

[drummergirl6]

Spoke some more I kind of showed some interest in her and she has now said that she has a lot going on at the moment, and said.. so friends? I'm guessing this just means she letting me down gently

[dragonbaby914]

It may be hun but it also may be that she isn't interested or looking at someone else or there may be possible that she is going through some things at the moment.

[drummergirl6]

Well I guess I just stop chasing at this point, seems pointless ha

[dragonbaby914]

I am sorry I haven't been on lately sweetie how is things going? And never stop for love sweetie even if she isn't the one there are others out there just like you looking for love.

[drummergirl6]

Its been odd, she finally messaged me saying she wasn't interested and that she liked someone else, then a week later she sent me some flirty texts and I asked her about them when she sobered up and she had no answers for me, sometimes she ignores my text sometimes she don't and she always cool with me in person. I think I am going to have one last attempt to talk to her in private about it as I don't know where I stand and I would like to know

[dragonbaby914]

Make sure you ask questions of how she can be cool with you in person is she cool with you around her friends or just you & her? Or both?
Ask her if she remembers the flirty texts where all about?
She may be saying she likes someone else because maybe she does? Or maybe she isn't interested in you?
But, what gets me is how can you be all flirty & nice when your under the influence but sober is she the same flirty if not it might be the way she acts under the influence, see some people change when they are under the influence but others don't, some remember nothing or be like me where I remember everything!
You should just talk as a friend & ask her where you stand but don't fall into the trap & get your heart shattered or hope's up,
It seems like to me she is confused on what she wants or likes hun,
I'll be here :)

[drummergirl6]

Thanks I did ask her the day after about the texts and she didn't give me an answer really she was like I don't know, and she isn't flirty sober she comes out of her shell when she has a few drinks. I just feel like in the middle and I don't know what's going on when she does one thing then does another. We always hang with friends and that and she cool with me then

[dragonbaby914]

Try to get one on one time... but, if she needs a few drinks to get loose that is kind of pathetic because then that kind of means she has to have drinks in order to be herself or it can start to be a problem if she likes someone and she drinks she can flirt with someone else when she is already with someone.

[drummergirl6]

Well I will get her one on one when I have to speak to her, but we shall see what happens. Thanks for the help though :D

[dragonbaby914]

If the help workd or doesn't I am sorry but ill be there for u in any time of need :)good luck hun