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    Aug 30, 2009, 01:27 PM

    I always thought it referred to any manual stimulation.
    Here's the part that stuck out for me.

    Masturbation refers to sexual stimulation, especially of one's own genitals

    But I digress.

    We should start a new thread on the definition of masturbation. ;)

    In the meantime, I'm eagerly awaiting for our OP's return. :)
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    Aug 30, 2009, 03:15 PM

    If it makes you feel any better, I too generally would term masturbation as what you do to yourself, though you could do it with someone else. If it's "sexual stimulation" wouldn't that include just about everything? Odd definition.
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    Aug 31, 2009, 09:21 AM

    Yes we do sometimes but it is rare
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    #24

    Aug 31, 2009, 01:23 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by newlywed801 View Post
    yes we do sometimes but it is rare
    Has he ever brought you to a climax that way? Have you brought him off? Sex is seldom about bonding for young guys. You might consider getting him to play for awhile rather than just jumping in the sack like he wants to do.
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    Aug 31, 2009, 09:39 PM

    No he has never bbrought me to a climax with oral... I have brought him at a climax with oral with him though
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    #26

    Aug 31, 2009, 09:47 PM

    It sounds to me like neither one of you know your bodies, what you enjoy, what gets you off and that seems to be the problem.

    Have you considered going to the library or book store and getting some books on sex, the how tos? ;)

    You're both young, you're both inexperienced, it takes time and an open mind in order to get to great sex.

    You have to communicate with each other, tell him what you like, listen to what he likes, be willing to experiment, and most of all, enjoy it!

    Sex is great, it shouldn't leave you dispondent, it should leave you elated, but like everything else, practice makes perfect.
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    Sep 1, 2009, 12:01 PM

    Well I love him very much! And we have all the time in the world to explore each other . Thanks so much for the advice! Our lives together is just begin and I am sure we will come to quite a few more hardships I am so glad this is available for you guys to help me through and hopefully so I can help some one else through their hardships to
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