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    #321

    May 26, 2009, 05:06 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Steve1010 View Post
    loook please. i rambled on and on because i thought u guys could identify what shes doing, one more time please tell me what u think.. i promise ill listen please.. anything to make myself feel better
    You forget about her, put the phone down, turn it off, turn off Facebook, don't stalk her and what she's doing.

    Grab a book, or a movie, take a shower or bath, do something to occupy your mind and forget about her.

    As long as you're stalking her, watching her, you'll never get past this, you'll drive yourself crazy.

    That's what you do, it's the only thing you can do.
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    #322

    May 26, 2009, 05:06 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Steve1010 View Post
    why does it make sense! she just added him as a friend!Q WHAT IS GOING ON HERE!
    I'll tell you. She knows you're monitoring her every single freaking move online, and she's doing this to hurt you. Got it? Clearly, you're texting and talking every moment you can, even after Wondergirl advised you not to. She knows she has complete control over you. Last night, she didn't have this control... remember? When you weren't answering her calls? If I were you, I'd stop looking at her Facebook and quit answering her messages... but you won't. You can't fix things the way you're going, but you can't resist being put down by her. Truly amazing, dude. You got all the advice you need. People are much less likely to talk you through this another night, only to watch you give in to her again.
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    #323

    May 26, 2009, 05:10 PM

    Ren has it right.
    She sees that you are keeping track of her and then when she thinks maybe you lost interest she tries to get you back in her web because she loves the control.
    You are wasting your time.
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    #324

    May 26, 2009, 05:12 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by N0help4u View Post
    Ren has it right.
    She sees that you are keeping track of her and then when she thinks maybe you lost interest she tries to get you back in her web because she loves the control.
    You are wasting your time.
    Had to spread the rep NH, but right on.
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    #325

    May 26, 2009, 05:12 PM

    Darnit, had to spread the rep for you too Ren. I agree.
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    #326

    May 26, 2009, 05:15 PM

    OK I'm not going to answer her. No more.
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    #327

    May 26, 2009, 05:18 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Steve1010 View Post
    ok im not gonna answer her. no more.
    Please, please don't. Go watch a movie, turn off your computer. Everything she's doing is to get a reaction from you. Turn off your phone, go meet a guy friend somewhere... do you have any guy friends?
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    #328

    May 26, 2009, 05:18 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Steve1010 View Post
    ok im not gonna answer her. no more.
    Good... stick to your convictions... it's the only way...
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    #329

    May 26, 2009, 05:21 PM

    I hope you mean it and don't change your mind 5 minutes from now.
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    #330

    May 26, 2009, 05:23 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by liz28 View Post
    I hope you mean it and don't change your mind 5 minutes from now.
    Me too.

    Time to live for yourself, not her. Go do something, anything but watching her and waiting.
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    #331

    May 26, 2009, 05:59 PM
    Hope you're hanging in there...
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    #332

    May 26, 2009, 06:01 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Ren6 View Post
    Hope you're hanging in there...
    Well if he doesn't reply, it could mean he took the advice and is off the computer... but we'll see.. really hope this dude does the right thing..
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    #333

    May 26, 2009, 06:30 PM

    Wondergirl agrees: I remember saying something like that 400 pages ago...
    You did dear, but you were nice about it. Sometimes you have to smack them over the head with a tire iron in order to get them to listen. ;)
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    #334

    May 26, 2009, 06:32 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Altenweg View Post
    You did dear, but you were nice about it. Sometimes you have to smack them over the head with a tire iron in order to get them to listen. ;)
    You young people get so rough sometimes. Lawdy me!
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    #335

    May 26, 2009, 06:33 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    You young people get so rough sometimes. Lawdy me!
    Haha... what would you have used to knock some sense into someone who just won't listen to reason?
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    #336

    May 26, 2009, 06:36 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by BlackVY View Post
    Haha... what would you have used to knock some sense into someone who just won't listen to reason?
    No dessert for a whole week?
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    #337

    May 26, 2009, 06:38 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    No dessert for a whole week?
    That only works on kids 6 and under dear. Just saying. ;)

    Yes, I can be mean, but it worked, didn't it? :cool:
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    #338

    May 26, 2009, 06:41 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    No dessert for a whole week?
    Hmmm... that might actually be more effective that a smack in the head, but depends on what's for dessert, and if I pull out the puppy dog eyes, will you cave? Lol ;)
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    #339

    May 26, 2009, 06:42 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Altenweg View Post
    That only works on kids 6 and under dear. Just sayin. ;)

    Yes, I can be mean, but it worked, didn't it? :cool:
    We HOPE it worked. What will be on the AMHD agenda for tonight, I wonder?
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    #340

    May 26, 2009, 06:47 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    We HOPE it worked. What will be on the AMHD agenda for tonight, I wonder?
    True. I do have more tools in my tool case. A claw hammer, a sander, a nail gun. The crowbar was just the first choice, there are other options. ;)

    Oops, I just gave my plan away. Not good! :eek:

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