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May 26, 2009, 05:06 PM
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 Originally Posted by Steve1010
loook please. i rambled on and on because i thought u guys could identify what shes doing, one more time please tell me what u think.. i promise ill listen please.. anything to make myself feel better
You forget about her, put the phone down, turn it off, turn off Facebook, don't stalk her and what she's doing.
Grab a book, or a movie, take a shower or bath, do something to occupy your mind and forget about her.
As long as you're stalking her, watching her, you'll never get past this, you'll drive yourself crazy.
That's what you do, it's the only thing you can do.
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May 26, 2009, 05:06 PM
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Originally Posted by Steve1010
why does it make sense! she just added him as a friend!Q WHAT IS GOING ON HERE!
I'll tell you. She knows you're monitoring her every single freaking move online, and she's doing this to hurt you. Got it? Clearly, you're texting and talking every moment you can, even after Wondergirl advised you not to. She knows she has complete control over you. Last night, she didn't have this control... remember? When you weren't answering her calls? If I were you, I'd stop looking at her Facebook and quit answering her messages... but you won't. You can't fix things the way you're going, but you can't resist being put down by her. Truly amazing, dude. You got all the advice you need. People are much less likely to talk you through this another night, only to watch you give in to her again.
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May 26, 2009, 05:10 PM
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Ren has it right.
She sees that you are keeping track of her and then when she thinks maybe you lost interest she tries to get you back in her web because she loves the control.
You are wasting your time.
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Pets Expert
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May 26, 2009, 05:12 PM
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Originally Posted by N0help4u
Ren has it right.
She sees that you are keeping track of her and then when she thinks maybe you lost interest she tries to get you back in her web because she loves the control.
You are wasting your time.
Had to spread the rep NH, but right on.
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May 26, 2009, 05:12 PM
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Darnit, had to spread the rep for you too Ren. I agree.
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Junior Member
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May 26, 2009, 05:15 PM
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OK I'm not going to answer her. No more.
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May 26, 2009, 05:18 PM
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Originally Posted by Steve1010
ok im not gonna answer her. no more.
Please, please don't. Go watch a movie, turn off your computer. Everything she's doing is to get a reaction from you. Turn off your phone, go meet a guy friend somewhere... do you have any guy friends?
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Senior Member
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May 26, 2009, 05:18 PM
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Originally Posted by Steve1010
ok im not gonna answer her. no more.
Good... stick to your convictions... it's the only way...
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Ultra Member
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May 26, 2009, 05:21 PM
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I hope you mean it and don't change your mind 5 minutes from now.
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Pets Expert
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May 26, 2009, 05:23 PM
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Originally Posted by liz28
I hope you mean it and don't change your mind 5 minutes from now.
Me too.
Time to live for yourself, not her. Go do something, anything but watching her and waiting.
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Senior Member
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May 26, 2009, 05:59 PM
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Hope you're hanging in there...
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May 26, 2009, 06:01 PM
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Originally Posted by Ren6
Hope you're hanging in there...
Well if he doesn't reply, it could mean he took the advice and is off the computer... but we'll see.. really hope this dude does the right thing..
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Pets Expert
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May 26, 2009, 06:30 PM
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Wondergirl agrees: I remember saying something like that 400 pages ago...
You did dear, but you were nice about it. Sometimes you have to smack them over the head with a tire iron in order to get them to listen. ;)
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Jobs & Parenting Expert
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May 26, 2009, 06:32 PM
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Originally Posted by Altenweg
You did dear, but you were nice about it. Sometimes you have to smack them over the head with a tire iron in order to get them to listen. ;)
You young people get so rough sometimes. Lawdy me!
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May 26, 2009, 06:33 PM
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Originally Posted by Wondergirl
You young people get so rough sometimes. Lawdy me!
Haha... what would you have used to knock some sense into someone who just won't listen to reason?
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Jobs & Parenting Expert
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May 26, 2009, 06:36 PM
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Originally Posted by BlackVY
Haha... what would you have used to knock some sense into someone who just won't listen to reason?
No dessert for a whole week?
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Pets Expert
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May 26, 2009, 06:38 PM
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Originally Posted by Wondergirl
No dessert for a whole week?
That only works on kids 6 and under dear. Just saying. ;)
Yes, I can be mean, but it worked, didn't it? :cool:
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May 26, 2009, 06:41 PM
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Originally Posted by Wondergirl
No dessert for a whole week?
Hmmm... that might actually be more effective that a smack in the head, but depends on what's for dessert, and if I pull out the puppy dog eyes, will you cave? Lol ;)
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Jobs & Parenting Expert
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May 26, 2009, 06:42 PM
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Originally Posted by Altenweg
That only works on kids 6 and under dear. Just sayin. ;)
Yes, I can be mean, but it worked, didn't it? :cool:
We HOPE it worked. What will be on the AMHD agenda for tonight, I wonder?
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Pets Expert
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May 26, 2009, 06:47 PM
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Originally Posted by Wondergirl
We HOPE it worked. What will be on the AMHD agenda for tonight, I wonder?
True. I do have more tools in my tool case. A claw hammer, a sander, a nail gun. The crowbar was just the first choice, there are other options. ;)
Oops, I just gave my plan away. Not good! :eek:
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