in love, she's getting manipulated by her parents. She doesn't know anymore.
I'm sorry this is long, but I really need advice this is eating away at me.
so we have been dating for almost 9 months, we hit it off like wild fire. Everything went well. We near christmas time (which was 4 months in) and her mother, who is not a very nice person to being with. Went irate over us. She hates me. Why? She just does, she is very controlling and was in bad relationships in the past. She doesn't even sleep with her 2nd husband she is with. She controls my girlfriend. Demanding things. Taking things. Its her way or the highway. So then she went on a trip for a month out of the country. I broke up with her because of her moms threats to me. I didn't want to end it but I did. So she kept trying to get back with me telling me no worries we love each other. So I did. And it went well. Then one night she went out with some friends. She wanted me to go with but I was to tired. She called me drunk as can be, the next day we fought and she told me she had sex with this random guy. Then I said I was getting back with u.. She said no I was just saying that to piss u off.. so then we were together. The next day she comes clean and says yes we did have sex and I was really drunk and didn't want it or know what was going on, I woke up next to him blah blah.. it was hard to believe her but I did. I took her back she was so sorry and didn't want to talk about it. So then she accepts him on Facebook as a friend, I went nuts! She gets a lot of requests and she said she just clicked accept all, she then deleted him.
recently she told me she has never fallen so hard or fast for anyone and can't believe we made it through so much with her parents and other things. She told me she can't see herself without me and wants me for the rest of her life. She wants to be with me in college this next year and wants a promise ring at the end of summer. (we will both be freshman in collegem but going to different schools)
so then, she broke up with me a month later, she said her mom made her do it. And she can't be with me because she's not aloud to see me. Even though she is 18 and all that.. the next day she texted me and said how much she needs me and we will make it work and was so sorry but is just confused with her mom.. 2 weeks later after I do EVERYTHING to make her happy. I do all the little things for her everything. Bring her dinner to work, bring her to work. Bring flowers to her. etc. she then tells me I'm sorry but I don't have the same feelings for u as I did before. I still love u but not like before. She says she doesn't want a serious relationship anymore and just wants to be chill. She claims that I can't change how she feels.. which is true, but the week before she says HOW MUCH I MEAN TO HER AND SHE WANTS TO SPEND THE REST OF HER LIFE WITH ME! I ask why did u say then then? She said I meant it at the time. But I don't know anymore. I know her mom is playing a toll on her, she says she needs her space. But why? She said she wants to be with me and she has had some boyfriends in the past and said we have been through it all and she just knows I'm the one.. now she says she doesn't feel the same about me a week later?? WHAT DO I DO! Someone please help. What is she really thinking? Is she confused about her mom? Does she really love me? She says she does just not the same. But u don't lose feelings like that randomly... I've been losing sleep and I have been sick to my stomach, I love her so much..
if there's anymore info needed I will gladly give it.