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    Jun 5, 2012, 04:00 PM
    He cheated on me twice but I still love him!
    I know it is a commonly asked question but I still love by ex after he cheated on me twice but I really do love him. We are still good friends but he keeps asking if I want sex with him when we meet. Im not sure but if I do then what will happen after that? What should I do?
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    Jun 5, 2012, 04:06 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by elf1055 View Post
    I know it is a commonly asked question but i still love by ex after he cheated on me twice but i really do love him. We are still good friends but he keeps asking if i want sex with him when we meet. Im not sure but if I do then what will happen after that? What should I do?
    He wants a sex partner without the obligations and responsibilities that go with it.

    Otherwise known as a friend with benefits... You are going to end up hurt... you love him... and all he's after is a piece of tail. Poor match.
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    Jun 5, 2012, 04:06 PM
    This is going to hurt. I'm going to be completely honest with you. You probably won't like it. Just a warning.

    If the only thing he asks for when he sees you is sex, then he doesn't care about you. He's already proven that, he cheated on you twice when you were a couple.

    He obviously only has one thing on his mind, and that's sex. If that's all you want, then fine. But realize that to him it's only sex, but for you it seems to be a lot more. I doubt he'll ever feel that way, at least not about you. You don't cheat on someone you love, and you don't ask someone you claimed to love to have a casual sexual relationship.

    I'd forget about him, and find someone that wants more than just sex.
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    Jun 5, 2012, 04:14 PM
    Stay far away, he's only into you for the sex.
    As long as you let him, he will continue and you will be the one who is hurt, it's just not worth it.
    You still love him and some people know how to take that love and use it against you and not care about the consequences where you are concerned.
    Harsh but true.
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    Jun 5, 2012, 04:14 PM
    [QUOTE=smoothy;3141735]He wants a sex partner without the obligations and responsibilities that go with it.

    Otherwise known as a friend with benefits... You are going to end up hurt... you love him... and all he's after is a piece of tail. Poor match.[/QUOTE

    Thank you. For your help Smoothy


    Ye. Thank you
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    Jun 5, 2012, 04:16 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Alty View Post
    This is going to hurt. I'm going to be completely honest with you. You probably won't like it. Just a warning.

    If the only thing he asks for when he sees you is sex, then he doesn't care about you. He's already proven that, he cheated on you twice when you were a couple.

    He obviously only has one thing on his mind, and that's sex. If that's all you want, then fine. But realize that to him it's only sex, but for you it seems to be a lot more. I doubt he'll ever feel that way, at least not about you. You don't cheat on someone you love, and you don't ask someone you claimed to love to have a casual sexual relationship.

    I'd forget about him, and find someone that wants more than just sex.

    Thanks for the advice.
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    Jun 5, 2012, 04:17 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by LadySam View Post
    Stay far away, he's only into you for the sex.
    As long as you let him, he will continue and you will be the one who is hurt, it's just not worth it.
    You still love him and some people know how to take that love and use it against you and not care about the consequences where you are concerned.
    Harsh but true.
    Thank you.
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    Dec 29, 2012, 12:09 AM
    You can forget him but you cannot stop loving but please my advise is do not give him your body love is the matter is anyone tell me the real meaning of the damn word "LOVE" and I don't suggest you too do the same he cheats you and you cheats yourself
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