[Matteus]

You are convinced that she is pregnant, and what does that mean for you.

If she is totally shutting you off from her life, it could be very difficult, and very expensive via a lawyer, to determine if she had a baby, and if the baby is yours via tests. She does not sound like the type of person who would cooperate with either option.

That's right, during these 3 months, and even before, I saw this lack of cooperation in any kind of situations. She was the type of person who only thought "Black or white". Once one gets blacklisted from her, it doesn't matter who he/she is, old friend, boyfriend, or whatever, its done, no compromisses (I think that's why she has no friends or close friends at all)

[Matteus]

Leave this alone Matt, as time will tell what happens next, and you should be focusing on what you do with your life, without her in it. Have no more contact with her as its finally over.

Im afraid Talaniman. Afraid she will give the child for adoption. She admitted (not to me) if she could abort the child, she would, but now its too late.

[talaniman]

I know your not in the US, Matt because an adoption without the fathers permission is illegal. But for you now, back way off and see how events turn out as you have no facts to put with the fears except know she can manipulate your feelings, and is. That's why you leave her alone.

[JudyKayTee]

Or my suggestion would be to simply hire an Attorney. In some Countries the prospective father files for DNA in anticipation of the child being born. I realize that distance here is a problem and OP will probably have to travel but it's better than sitting around waiting to see what happens next.