[Choux]

HIs sexual antics are all about HIM, they are not about you as a person, but you as an object.

Also, he's too old for you by far.

Move along and find someone your age; not someone so jaded.


Best wishes, :)

[excon]

Hello:

Seems to me, it's the OLDER wimin who don't like the older guy getting some from a younger chick...

I wonder if that has anything to do with the fact the old broads CAN'T get young guys, but old guys CAN get young chicks.

Nahhh...

excon

[Homegirl 50]

Young men are falling all over older women, although I would not have one.
I don't think older men realize how stupid they look with these young girls and I have talked to enough of the girls to know they even laugh at them.
The problem with this guy is that he is using this girl. She could be 20 or 50, he is still using her as a toy

[ordinaryguy]

I wonder if that has anything to do with the fact the old broads CAN'T get young guys, but old guys CAN get young chicks.

You're poking a hornets' nest with a short stick, man. Why would you do that? Focus on the behavior, not the age, unless you're looking to get stung.

Some old can get some young, of both genders, and I'm sure there are instances when it's a fine and beautiful thing that's beneficial for both.

But this clearly isn't one of those instances because he's inconsiderate at best, abusive at worst. Even if they were born on the same day, it's unacceptable.

[smoothy]

I bet its all about "fresh meat" excitement. Any normal mans going to have that with a new woman until the novelty wears off and the more physically attractive the worse it will be. Now if he's still like this after 3 years then it's a different thing.


He doesn't have a bottle of little blue pills (Viagra) does he?

[excon]

Young men are falling all over older women, although I would not have one. I don't think older men realize how stupid they look with these young girls and I have talked to enough of the girls to know they even laugh at them.
The problem with this guy is that he is using this girl. She could be 20 or 50, he is still using her as a toy

Hello girl50:

Couple things...

As he's getting ready to make love once again, to this lovely young thing, I'm sure he's NOT thinking about how stupid he looks, if he looks stupid at all. He certainly doesn't look stupid to ME. It's YOU who thinks he looks stupid. I don't know why, unless it's because you can't get a young guy.

The next thing is your assertion that he's using her. You have NO clue about that, and your personal prejudices are becoming apparent again. It could be as easily said that she's using HIM.

Nahhh. I'm sticking with what I said.

excon

[Homegirl 50]

She is the one complaining about his actions, as for your unnecessary personal comment about me, young guys are not my thing. They are not even on my radar.

[excon]

She is the one complaining about his actions,

Hello again, girl:

She's complaining about him, true. What she's NOT doing, is calling him names and impugning his character.

excon

[Homegirl 50]

Hello again, girl:

She's complaining about him, true. What she's NOT doing, is calling him names and impugning his character.

excon

Like you did mine?
I was not the only one that had that opinion, yet you singled me out and called me by name. What is that about?
I disagreed with you and your opinion of older women, but I did not call you out and I did not say anything about you personally, but you did me, Why?

[Synnen]

If you two don't stop arguing with each other and just answer the OP's question, I'm going to spank you both, and make you hold hands for an hour. Plus I'll delete your posts.

[Hathor]

HIs sexual antics are all about HIM, they are not about you as a person, but you as an object.

Also, he's too old for you by far.

Move along and find someone your age; not someone so jaded.


Best wishes, :)

Thanks for your concern. Really do ;-)

But I didn't ask for relationship advice, otherwise I'd have posted it on relationship. I think being too old or too young for each other is a relative matter, as long as one isn't under 18, as long as it's not illegal or immoral, I think it's a matter of two people. And I think I can decide for myself.

It's not about frequency of sex as such, I mean at first he pursued me but after a while I initiated it more and more. I don't think I'm being used as such. If he uses me for sex, then I use him for sex too.

You're right, his sexual antics are of his concern not mine. I only wanted to know if some of his sexual behavior are normal or render him somewhat sex addicted. I mean all those licking unusual places stuff, groping me at the bar, and never ever be patient undressing me (he always almost ripped my clothes off). I brought up his age because I thought men that age should have already learnt to be more patient. I was surprised because my ex's who were of my age were even a bit shy about the whole sex thing.

And another thing I really want to know is, how usual/unusal is anilingus?

[Hathor]

Oh, one more thing. I'm just so tired (in general) of hearing the so-called 'move on' advice. Of course, in some cases, if you're being abused, cheated on, constantly lied to, neglected to the point of nonexistence, then you should have the strength and dignity to stand up for yourself and leave. But that's not always the case, and I really do think that sometimes we jump into the conclusion way too fast. It's extremely natural to protect yourself but being paranoid doesn't help either.

Just my 2 cents ;-)

Again thanks for all your answers, I still need the answer to my anilingus question though.

[excon]

And another thing I really wanna know is, how usual/unusal is anilingus?

Hello H:

For me, not unusual at all. But, I haven't taken a survey.

excon

[talaniman]

All of us are normal in our sexual tastes and its all good when we have the right partner to share with. So yes, he is normal.

Some are freakier than others, so if the partners are happy, so should the rest of the world.

Sorry about your clothes, but he is just doing what HE likes to do. So that's normal for him!

To each his own.

[Synnen]

Okay--see, the problem with your question in general is that "normal" doesn't exist when defining sex acts.

What's "normal" for one person is "freaky" for another. What one person does every single time they have sex another person considers to be gross, or scary, or disrespectful, or not-fun, or whatever.

How COMMON is analingus? Common enough that half my boyfriends have done it.

Look--do what you enjoy, and tell him to stop the stuff that makes you uncomfortable. If none of it makes you uncomfortable, then GREAT! You're a good sex match!

Sex is all about communication. If you BOTH enjoy something--then who CARES how "normal" it is?

[smoothy]

Oh, one more thing. I'm just so tired (in general) of hearing the so-called 'move on' advice. Of course, in some cases, if you're being abused, cheated on, constantly lied to, neglected to the point of nonexistence, then you should have the strength and dignity to stand up for yourself and leave.

Problem is MANY people waste all together too much of their short lives with someone they just aren't compatible enough with. Not saying this is the case here, but you don't have to have any of the above mentioned abuses to be in a situation that's just not productive. And its usually those two people that are the last to recognise it.

[anon189]

He's not a sex addict, he is a middle aged fool and you are his "red corvette" his toy.
Wise up girl.

Agree with that.