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    Partyplaya Posts: 2, Reputation: 1
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    May 26, 2007, 05:52 PM
    Orgasm ANyone!
    Okay.. so I'm 17 years old. Been having sex for about 9 monthes and my boyfriend doesn't have the biggest but not the smallest.. and I'm not sure how to get him to give me an orgasm.. he enjoys the sex more then I do, and I don't know how to make me enjoy it as much as he does.. sometimes I enjoy when he fingers me more then sex.. but the sex also feels really great.. I've never had an orgasm.. what can I do to enjoy it much better:confused:
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    May 26, 2007, 07:11 PM
    Has he performed on your orally directly onto your clitoris? That and a lot of foreplay is what you should try
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    May 27, 2007, 04:25 PM
    The size of his penis will not determine your ability to have an orgasm.

    Being manually stimulated (fingered etc.) is more direct on the clitoris and the g-spot, so of course you are more likely to enjoy it (I have yet to hear of a penis that can do the same thing as a well practised set of fingers).

    You may need to assist yourself while there is penetration (by his penis), this will probably tip you over the brink.

    Hope this help
    Cheers.
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    May 27, 2007, 04:30 PM
    Patience and foreplay. More foreplay and more foreplay.

    Stimulation and patience and eventually after being with your partner you will both be so relaxed that it will happen.

    Orgasming at the same time is an amazing experience, whoops getting ahead here. Lets just say it takes lots of time and practise.

    Joe
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    May 27, 2007, 04:47 PM
    I'm with XRayman. I would suggest stimulating your clitoris yourself during sex. The best way to do that is in doggy style position. A circular motion with your finger will do the trick. Plus you have to concentrate.
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    May 27, 2007, 07:31 PM
    There are a lot of New postions that will get a women off. I really enjoy being on top.. Try getting on top and Having your back face him, Hold his ankles.. That's really Good when you can control How to move. Oral Is another Way to get a lot of women off. Just try new things. Have fun.. Enjoy it but be safe!
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    May 27, 2007, 09:45 PM
    Why Am I ejeculate so fast?
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    May 27, 2007, 10:08 PM
    Because the stimulation during sex is intense! Google kegels- kegels help you delay ejaculation!
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    May 28, 2007, 09:38 AM
    Why don't YOU try having sex with him... ;)
    Go on top, take control! Best orgasms come from on top I says!
    Be glad you're with an average sized dude!
    Best!
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    May 29, 2007, 10:45 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Partyplaya
    okay.. so im 17 years old. been having sex for about 9 monthes and my boyfriend doesnt have the biggest but not the smallest.. and im not sure how to get him to give me an orgasm.. he enjoys the sex more then i do, and i dont kno how to make me enjoy it as much as he does.. sometimes i enjoy when he fingers me more then sex.. but the sex also feels really great.. ive never had an orgasm.. what can i do to enjoy it much better:confused:
    Ask him to rub your clitorie and womanhood you will get orgasom certainly it could be better if he sucks you there in your with his tongue
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    May 30, 2007, 09:39 AM
    use his tongue!! You tell him every moment what you like, and get into it. Tell him to add fingers as he's doing that. You have to use your imagination, once you can do that you will never leave the bedroom. Are you capable of masturbation=orgasm on your own?
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    May 31, 2007, 01:08 PM
    Laughing... Attention ramgopalmeena} I just read your post on page one and noticed it was your first post ever. Welcome! I could tell that that was a hard post... it was a little short, and quick. I thought that the wording was a little stiff, but may be a little hard to swallow for some. It was very good for your first time.

    Honestly it was a funny post. A little blunt... but it made me laugh.
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    May 31, 2007, 07:20 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Greg Quinn
    Laughing... Attention ramgopalmeena} I just read your post on page one and noticed it was your first post ever. Welcome! I could tell that that was a hard post...it was a little short, and quick. I thought that the wording was a little stiff, but may be a little hard to swallow for some. It was very good for your first time.

    Honestly it was a funny post. A little blunt...but it made me laugh.
    LMAO!
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    May 31, 2007, 07:29 PM
    Kind of got to wonder what that one was doing... Maybe typing with one hand. LOL
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    May 31, 2007, 09:01 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Greg Quinn
    Kinda got to wonder what that one was doin...Maybe typing with one hand. LOL
    I got a small idea...
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