[amanda_heidecker]

My fiancée and I have been trying to get pregnant for the past 9 months, we aren't using any birth control and have sex several times a week, but I haven't gotten pregnant. I am worried that I can't get pregnant or he is shooting blanks and I don't know what to do, we would both give anything to have a baby but can't afford fertility treatments. Does testing cost? I'm scared I cry all the time because all I want it to be a mother.

[JoeCanada76]

Honestly,

Stress and crying and worrying is just going to delay you from getting pregnant. 85 % of couples it takes a good year to get pregnant.

Guarantee once you relax and just enjoy your time together. It will happen when you least expect it, but if you continue stressing and crying and worrying about something that is out of your hands it will only continue to delay pregnancy from happening.

You need to have fun, go on vacation. Stop focusing on trying so hard.

As well, women are usually only fertile for only 3 or 4 days each month. Many others here will have good suggestions and recommendations for you. Even seeing your doctor and they can chart out your ovulation cycle for you. There are many good websites out there too.

Anyway, best wishes to you and when you least expect it, I believe it will happen.

Joe

[ghost56]

The saying is true, you can try too hard. I know it is hard, but try to relax and enjoy making love, rather than thinking will it produce a baby. Go to:- SELECTED: Bleeding during pregnancy PREGNANT WOMEN For info on implantation bleeding. Also try to make love, 2 days before, during and after ovulation.

[J_9]

I can't add any more here than what you have already been given. But I do have one thought for you.

If you can't afford going to a fertility doctor, how are you going to afford a child? Children are MUCH more expensive than going to a fertility doctor. They are a lifetime financial expense, where fertility treatments do not last a lifetime.