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    Oct 13, 2012, 09:13 PM
    Me and my girlfriend broke up August 1st
    Me and my girlfriend broke up August 1st!she say she wanted space, so I gave her space!Some days I will give her space, and some days I will talk to her!We had a good relationship from my veiwe!Im 23 and she is 34, but for some reason she always want to quit!

    We met on may 9, we said we love each other may 26, may 31 we made it official that we where a couple, after she wanted to quit on us, I had to form her that we will go through hard times but I'm here

    In addition I do have gentile warts, gentile warts is a low risk hpv!Through this space I would do things to make her happy, but she got mad, like she told me to move on!One time I said I wish you the best effort if you ever move on, and talk to somebody else, after she told me I can talk to somebody else!she said "why would you say that"!Also, I was joking on both of us one day and I said she haves a little peach fuzz!she said " you"!

    Its like every time we got in a argument she didn't want to hear me out, so I had to explain over text messages!take in mind I do have a iPhone,iPhones don't have a limitation of words on them, so I probably send her like 10 messages explaining to her why I said this and that.

    So Sunday I said "last night it seem like you was on a date, you was in and out your text messages,plus only time you stay up i know is when me and you use to kick it on saturday night"she got mad and told me the real reason she didn't want to be with me, because of my condition, gentile warts!She can't picture being with somebody like me!that hurted so bad! I told her at the beginning us being a couple "i don't want you to ever look at me as a monster"!

    However she also said "i don't want you, i went to the doctors a few weeks back and see if you rubbed against me the wrong way,seen if i botany warts, that scares me"!

    It hurts, pple without health issues never know how it feels, such as diseases! she block my number!if she wanted to quit plenty of times, I question her love now .like did she really love me?

    M a part time student and go to school, she said I should have take this time out to get myself together.so we can be together in the future!but to come to fine out, how can we, and you don't want to be with somebody that haves gential warts !I get hurt all the time by females! We started great, I met her at my job.She's from NC, just move up here in May!We plan a whole life together, kids, marriage, next year!we were planning to get a place together next year!

    However, I told her" it will be best for her not to do research on gentile warts it will scare you !This whole time in the relationship she was scarer! i told her at the beginning "I don't want her to ever look at me as a monster"! Sometimes i think about calling from another number and telling her how i feel about the whole situation with us.When she told me it was my health condition, that hurt so bad!some pple look at others wrong when they have something, i use to do that!but the feeling change when the shoe is on the other foot.its not like i have aids, i have something thats treatable!

    I love her so much, i would of stay if she had gentile warts!and yes i know how it feel to be on the other side of the fence, i dated somebody that had a worst case of hpv!its still unanswered questions i want to ask her like why would you do research on gentile warts so heavy? i told you i don't want you scare!hell i don't read deep into it my condition, i told her "I whether take the pain for us!For example, id a bullet was coming our way, I will take it!

    Research say 80 percent of americans gentile warts in their life time!many pple I ask about advice on this situation, said she was immature for her age!But I wonder, you 34, why block a number?

    I love her to death!I think she will regret the way she treated me one day!its so hard sometimes to move forward, sometimes I will forget about the situation and that feeling of hurt come back 5 minutes later!she lied the whole time saying it wasn't my condition, letting me down easy!I knew something was up after she came back in town from NC! SHE STOP CALLING ME BABE, ETC, STOP COVERSATING THROUGH TEXT, BECAUSE WE USE TO TEXT ALL DAY WHILE BOTH OF US WAS AT WORK!IT SEEM LIKE SOMEBODY GOT IN HER HEADE!sometimes now, I don't even want to talk to pple, far as new females, I rather just be to myself!
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    Oct 13, 2012, 09:18 PM
    She blocked the number because she no longer wants to talk to you, she broke up with you, she's doing no contact, and you have to accept that. She doesn't owe you an explanation. It takes two people to have a relationship, and she doesn't want one with you.

    Did you know you had genital warts before you two had a sexual relationship? If so, did you tell her that you had genital warts?
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    Oct 13, 2012, 09:33 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Alty View Post
    She blocked the number because she no longer wants to talk to you, she broke up with you, she's doing no contact, and you have to accept that. She doesn't owe you an explanation. It takes two people to have a relationship, and she doesn't want one with you.

    Did you know you had genital warts before you two had a sexual relationship? If so, did you tell her that you had genital warts?
    I KNEW I HAD GENTILE WARTS BEFORE HER! The credit goes to her by me eating right, taking herbs, vitamins!At first I wasn't doing that!She introduce me into getting right!We never had sex, we told ourselves we won't rush it!

    However, before the trip to Nc she stated she will get me some vitamins and herbs, after a two day trip from NC!No more nick names, less effort of communication!

    I think she talk to her mother or somebody!I just don't know what to do now!its hard to move on, sometimes I got to force myself to talk to other pple!I just can't believe she block my number!I thought she will be here forever for me, I thought she really love me!
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    Oct 13, 2012, 09:55 PM
    She doesn't want to be with you. You don't like to listen. Remember your first thread where I asked you to fix it, and put in periods? Well, you still have exclamation points at the end of every sentence and you never read through your words to correct your spelling. If this is how you listened to her, I would block your number, too.
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    Oct 13, 2012, 09:57 PM
    If I had to guess, I would say she probably got tired of you contacting her! So she block your number! Because she break up with you! Let it go and move on! Find someone else!

    And so you know, it's "genital" not "gentile".
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    Oct 13, 2012, 11:15 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Uniquehero23 View Post
    I KNEW I HAD GENTILE WARTS BEFORE HER! The credit goes to her by me eating right, taking herbs, vitamins!At first i wasn't doing that!She introduce me into getting right!We never had sex, we told ourselves we won't rush it!

    However, before the trip to Nc she stated she will get me some vitamins and herbs, after a two day trip from NC!No more nick names, less effort of communication!

    I think she talk to her mother or somebody!i just don't know what to do now!its hard to move on, sometimes i got to force myself to talk to other pple!I just can't believe she block my number!i thought she will be here forever for me, i thought she really love me!
    Do not yell at me!

    I volunteer here! Yell and you're on your own. I don't get paid to do this, so I won't put up with being yelled at!
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    Oct 13, 2012, 11:16 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by odinn7 View Post
    If I had to guess, I would say she probably got tired of you contacting her! So she block your number! Because she break up with you! Let it go and move on! find someone else!

    And so you know, it's "genital" not "gentile".
    LMAO! Gentile warts. Is that a strain of warts that only gentiles are susceptible to?
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    Oct 14, 2012, 08:36 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by Alty View Post
    Do not yell at me!

    I volunteer here! Yell and you're on your own. I don't get paid to do this, so I won't put up with being yelled at!
    Im not yelling at you!
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    Oct 14, 2012, 08:37 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by odinn7 View Post
    If I had to guess, I would say she probably got tired of you contacting her! So she block your number! Because she break up with you! Let it go and move on! find someone else!

    And so you know, it's "genital" not "gentile".
    Yeah I know how to spell it, didn't feel like proof reading and was so and the hurry to hear some answers
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    Oct 14, 2012, 08:38 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by Alty View Post
    Do not yell at me!

    I volunteer here! Yell and you're on your own. I don't get paid to do this, so I won't put up with being yelled at!
    I wasn't yelling at you
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    Oct 14, 2012, 08:40 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by teacherjenn4 View Post
    She doesn't want to be with you. You don't like to listen. Remember your first thread where I asked you to fix it, and put in periods? Well, you still have exclamation points at the end of every sentence and you never read through your words to correct your spelling. If this is how you listened to her, I would block your number, too.
    I always put exclamation marks, instead of periods!I thought u can help, instead of trying to criticize me on spelling. I was just and a rush to get answers. But o.k.
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    Oct 14, 2012, 01:59 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Uniquehero23 View Post
    I always put exclamation marks, instead of periods!i thought u can help, instead of trying to criticize me on spelling. I was just and a rush to get answers. But o.k.!
    I asked you to fix your thread by adding paragraphs, periods, and checking your spelling because it didn't make sense. We don't use text speak. If you want help, people need to be able to read to help you. If you are too lazy, then that is another reason why someone wouldn't want you to contact them.
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    Oct 14, 2012, 02:44 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Uniquehero23 View Post
    I wasn't yelling at you
    I KNEW I HAD GENTILE WARTS BEFORE HER!
    All caps on the internet, is yelling.
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    Oct 15, 2012, 09:40 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by teacherjenn4 View Post
    I asked you to fix your thread by adding paragraphs, periods, and checking your spelling because it didn't make sense. We don't use text speak. If you want help, people need to be able to read to help you. If you are too lazy, then that is another reason why someone wouldn't want you to contact them.
    Let me ask you a question. Im debating should I call her and talk to her.You think that will be a good idea? She stay on my mind a lot, or should I just get over it?
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    Oct 15, 2012, 04:37 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Uniquehero23 View Post
    Let me ask you a question. Im debating should i call her and talk to her.You think that will be a good idea? She stay on my mind a lot, or should i just get over it?
    Leave her alone. She will contact you if she wants to hear from you.

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