[Fitch]

Me and me ex-gf have almost been together for 2 1/2 years and last week she wanted to end it. We've been having a long distance relationship for a year now and she just moved to a town that's closer. I figured it would be a lot easier but I was wrong. It's been a bit rocky because she had been going out to clubs more frequently with friends and my sister. I ended up texting her Thursday after she got in at to a.m. and told her I wasn't happy anymore. She said she knew and thought we should break up. Well I ended up driving to talk to her but she really wanted to breakup. She said she wanted the college party life and didn't want to worry about upsetting me. Anyway flashback to today. I don't plan on contacting her anymore because I know it's the best thing.

I guess my question is this and I KNOW I'm jumping the gun. This is the second time she has ended things with me. The first time she went back to her ex-bf but a month later came crawling back begging for me to take her back. Well that was almost 2 years ago. About 6 months after I took her back I ended things with her and dated this other girl for a few weeks and it didn't work so I went back to my original GF. Well its been a year since I broke up with her and now she's ending things again. I'm afraid if she comes back to me I won't be able to say no. Of course I don't want to be hurt again but I love her and she loves me still. I know I shouldn't even be thinking about it but its hard.

Edit: Her mom attempted suicide about a month ago so she has been going through a lot, but I've been there right beside her until now.

[beachgurly06]

I wouldn't take her back. Obviously she doesn't see what you're worth. You should just do some confidence boosters, get back on the dating scene and be young and see how she likes it.