[NiceGuy360]

Okay my girlfriend broke up with me because although we LOVE each other so much, She will be going to college soon which is pretty far. She still has strong feelings for me, but at the same time she doesn't want to be in a long distance relationship because she said it never worked for her. She's sorry about what she had to do, but She says maybe after college we might be together again hopefully. My question is.. What should I do? We love each other so much and she told me that she was happy to know that I was never a cheater or did anything wrong but just loved and cared for her. She also said I changed her heart in a good way and that my love for her and everything I gave her she's keeping and So will I. My question now is, What should I do now ? I've been in college now for two years and she just graduated from high school in 2010 and me in 2009. I'm not the type the that loves someone real fast and neither is she. She still loves when I talk to her and calls her baby and things like that. I just need to know what should I because we love each other so much. And she said transportation will be hard for her because she doesn't have a car. And also she will be super busy. And I care about her education. Its just what should I do ? She's my first love and I'm her longest boyfriend she ever had. All the others cheated or played on her, but I just touched her heart in a way that she will always remember.

[ninjajr92]

This is a very common situation. I understand the love between you guys because I've had something very similar. Although you want to make it work, the fact is it takes two to make a successful relationship. You two seem like very great people, but at this point the decision has already been made. What you should do now at this point is support her decision. I understand that's not what you want, but again she's made her decision. At this point in your life I believe you should focus on where you are going with your life as an individual. Don't revolve your life around her.

[talaniman]

Life seems to be getting in the way of love and romance, but a decision has been made, and romance is on the back burner. Bow out gracefully while you still have great memories, and good feelings about each other.

Things will change for the worst if you don't. Time to do your own things without each other.

[NiceGuy360]

Aww.. yeah, your right. She said she still loves me and we did have a faithful relationship. We never had an argument or anything. She said she didn't want to break up with me. Her dream was to go to the same college as me. But it didn't happen.

She also said that she would never find a guy that was so sweet and caring to her then what I did. She said maybe I after college if I'm still single or if she is, we'll be back together. I was the best man she ever had she told me.

[NiceGuy360]

I even asked her was long distance okay, but she said no. I agreed to her opinion, because she said that its not the same not being near that person. So yeah.. she didn't want to, but in her mind she felt it was best. People were getting mad because she did that. Even my mom was upset. She starts college in January, but she broke up with me. And I asked her why 3 months ahead. But she said " I did it because it would be harder later " But she still has feelings for me. I still tell her that I'll always love and protect her. She feels happy when I say that to her. I felt bad for her, because she's such a sweet person, and guys she met just cheated on her. She said I'm a good man, and I gave her hope that there are still nice guys looking for true love. I never cheated or played on her and she knew that. Neither did she. But she said she won't be looking for a relationship no time soon. It's hard :(... Even after this I said, " even after this, I can never stop loving you. I'm sorry. " She laughed and said, " Haha .. Its okay that you do. " I said to her, " Maybe we'll be together again " she replied, " Hopefully ".. She was my first and I still love her. I'm not going to rush on relationships either. But when she first broke up with me.. I was upset about it, but she said I did nothing wrong or anything, she just did it so it would be less stress on the both of us. <3.. She was so special to me :'(

[bholzschuh]

I know how you feel. My ex did the same thing with me, it's tough and very confusing :(