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    Jun 9, 2012, 11:43 PM
    Im getting married in two months but is it right
    Im getting married in two months but I don't think I love him any more we have a small child together and I want our some to have a perfect life every child should have my parents and family adore my partner but I feel more like friends and Im still in love with my ex whom Ive Just started sleeping with again :( me and my partner have not had sex in over a beat because I don't want to sleep with him if I leave him I have no wheel to go no car no nothing and he can't afford to live where we live on his own everyone is excited about the wedding but me I have told hIm o don't Love him but he is carrying on like normal Im really scared in what to do
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    Jun 10, 2012, 12:13 AM
    Of course it isn't right if you are sleeping with your ex ! You had better get out of your situation now, tell this man you can't marry him, you don't love him. You are not in a good position right now. If you leave him you will have to get a job to support you and your child, but isn't that better then living a lie?
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    Jun 10, 2012, 05:28 AM
    Sure, call off the wedding. And get some therapy. I'm going to take a wild guess that it was you who broke up with your ex, not he with you? And now you have 'forgotten' why, and he's alluring again.
    Long term love isn't an exciting romance. It's friendship, respect, appreciation, and comfort. That doesn't have to be dreary. If you still want the thrill, you should have waited to have children.
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    Jun 10, 2012, 06:38 AM
    Its not one sided reading back Ive not stared anything my partner is he never notices me and doesn't do as much as I thought he would do with our son I do eveything for them both and our child as planned as We had firtility treatment I do work to provide for them but its not enough!
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    Jun 10, 2012, 06:48 AM
    If you are sleeping with your ex it is not right to get married at this point in time.

    You really need to reevaluate what it is you want in a marriage. Being married means that you devote yourself to your husband and your husband only. If you can't do this NOW, what makes you think you can do it in 2 months?

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