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    Mar 14, 2011, 01:57 PM
    What should I do about my girlfriend
    My girlfriend says she loves me and all but when I was skypein her she was on the phone with guy and I have had a guy said they just broke up after I started datein her and her ex always comes over to her house but she says they are just friends what should I do
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    Mar 14, 2011, 03:55 PM
    End this relationship, she's using you as a safety-coushin.

    They have been going out, and while she's in a relationship with you he visit's her often.
    She might say they're just friends - might be true but higly unlikely. I would rate this relationship a rebound.

    What that basically means is while she's feeling alone she uses you for support, when you have then nursed her back to health she's going to leave you - save yourself further heartache and move on mate.
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    Mar 14, 2011, 04:09 PM
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    That's what I was thinking but I wasn't sure now how should I do it should I wait because her grandpa just died and how can I ignore her crying I always end up doing what she says when she crys
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    Mar 14, 2011, 05:01 PM
    It's okay to feel bad for her, but she is using you. And it seems to me like her ex is around enough of the time to comfort her..

    Say you want to break up. Talk all you like just make sure you brake up, and when that's done you do no contact with her.
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    Mar 15, 2011, 06:55 AM
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    Can I get your email or something for if I got more questions
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    Mar 15, 2011, 07:14 AM

    How old are you guys?
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    Mar 15, 2011, 10:15 AM
    I check this site on a regular basis, if you have anymore questions feel free to add them here, and I will respond when I see them, on a side note. Typing it in here will allow other users with different idea and opinions to give their input.
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    Mar 15, 2011, 01:38 PM
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    I'm 18
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    Mar 15, 2011, 01:39 PM
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    OK good to go thanks
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