[wishes09]

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I met a wonderful man but he is super sensitive and very affectionate sometimes too much. He is always wanting to hug and follows me around while I am at home like my shadow. I know he likes me and I like him but it is too much.
I have tried hinting like stating boundaries but he doesn't seem to catch on to the hints. I feel bad and almost ridiculous for feeling this way because there are so many crappy men in this world with no respect for women and here I have one that is.

[talaniman]

Some of us sensitive guys don't take hints that well, but a direct, calm approach we listen to, though you may have to repeat it a few times, until it sinks in.

[Devorameira]

Be thankful that you have a loving attentive fellow. Many women long to have that special fellow that shows them attention.

Just be open with him and tell him how you feel. If he's really a great guy, he'll listen and heed your wishes.

[wishes09]

Thank you I was very honest with him and he was very understanding. He told me to just let him know if he is getting in my "bubble" lol

[wishes09]

Thank you for your advice I heard it loud and clear and just told him up front. I think I was just nervous about hurting his feelings but he took it well.