Ask Experts Questions for FREE Help !
Ask
    aymen's Avatar
    aymen Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
    New Member
     
    #1

    Nov 3, 2009, 04:38 AM
    I feel lonely
    Hi
    I'm from tunisai and I'm 24 years old I feel so lonely and I look for change .I look for something différents I look for a women with a big heart I can do any thing if its sure that I will be happy .I have a good joob but I look for a good realtion .if you have the same situation try to contact me . Big kiss
    Ithappenstoall's Avatar
    Ithappenstoall Posts: 363, Reputation: 37
    Full Member
     
    #2

    Nov 3, 2009, 04:56 AM

    Not sure this is the right place to find your significant other... may I suggest maybe online dating service or maybe just socializing more with friends and going out with friends more
    Romefalls19's Avatar
    Romefalls19 Posts: 4,739, Reputation: 1130
    Ultra Member
     
    #3

    Nov 3, 2009, 07:55 AM

    Wrong site for this. Try eharmony
    Lonely_19's Avatar
    Lonely_19 Posts: 6, Reputation: 4
    New Member
     
    #4

    Jan 24, 2010, 07:41 AM

    Start doing things that you've always wanted to do, or things that you just really enjoy doing..

    Ex. Take an art class, pick up an intrusment (guitar, piano, drums, whatever suits your fancy), join a club, whatever interests you. But don't do it for others, or because you think that it might be a great place to meet friends.. do it because it's something YOUR interested in, and something you want to do/try.

    It sounds to me like you've got some insecurites within yourself, that you're kind of unsure of yourself.
    In order to make friends (especially the good kind), and in order to really be a friend, you have first got to be a friend to yourself. (may sound corny/lame, but it's true)
    It sounds like you kind mold into groups/people etc by association.. (your girlfriend of 3 years dumped you and as a result you lost all of your friends because they were hers... )

    First you need to build yourself up, become YOUR OWN PERSON.
    Discover yourself, you'll probably find that you're a pretty rad person, and that right there will get you feeling better already.

    Second, focus on continuing to expand yourself, and the things you've discovered about yourself.. it will allow you to continue to "blossom" (lame word I know, but couldn't find a better term), into who you are. You will get to know yourself.. (right now, it sounds like you don't really know who you are, either). And once you really know yourself, it's much easier for others to get to know you and like you, too.

    So, start thinking about things you like to do, things you're good at, things you enjoy, and things you've always wanted to do... start doing these things and you will find that people will be drawn to you.

    There is a certain charisma and charm that comes from someone who knows who they are, and is confident in themselves.

    Best of luck!
    TrueFaith's Avatar
    TrueFaith Posts: 1,202, Reputation: 313
    Ultra Member
     
    #5

    Jan 24, 2010, 08:43 AM

    We all get lonely from time to time. You get out of life what you put into it. You are probable making little or no effort to make friends,

    There are some people, that are just not good with social skills,
    But that still should not stop you from making friends ;)

    It would help if we knew how old you was

    If I was talking to a 14 year old vs a 28 year old my advice would be very different.
    You do sound young though
    One of the dark brooding types ;)
    Writing on the walls poems
    Long hair in the face.
    Pain is hot. Etc etc


    You do need to build yourself up and become your own man
    Its easy said than done though.

Not your question? Ask your question View similar questions

 

Question Tools Search this Question
Search this Question:

Advanced Search

Add your answer here.


Check out some similar questions!

I feel sad and lonely [ 5 Answers ]

Hi there . I am new on this but not in the age , I came to this country in 1999 for a better life , I been marrid for 23 years my married never worked I just keepet it going 4 my children.. I love my children very much , I never did or think 4 myself just for them and I been keeping and dong...

I always feel lonely and need someone to be with [ 3 Answers ]

Hi, Sorry for posting this, but I don't know how to let this feeling pass. It has been like this for one month, since my boyfriend changes and he's not with me anymore. I feel like I'm always lonely, I feel like I lose my control and don't know what to do next, I start counting the minutes in the...

Why do I feel so lonely? [ 9 Answers ]

Hello, I'm writing because I need some advice on what to do. Recently I have been feeling lonely and I don't know why, I have a few friends but I still feel lonely. Im the type of person that likes to be around people but I'm not really that social. I don't know if that even makes sense. I try...

I feel lonely and depressed [ 3 Answers ]

Hi everyone. I do not know where to start :(. I feel so lonely and miserable, Im 20 yrs old.. I don't have many friends and the best friend that I had - has stopped talking to me for stupid reasons such as.. I fink all the boys like me, etc. Which is NOT d case but at times I would blame myself and...


View more questions Search