Hi
I'm from tunisai and I'm 24 years old I feel so lonely and I look for change .I look for something différents I look for a women with a big heart I can do any thing if its sure that I will be happy .I have a good joob but I look for a good realtion .if you have the same situation try to contact me . Big kiss

Not sure this is the right place to find your significant other... may I suggest maybe online dating service or maybe just socializing more with friends and going out with friends more

Wrong site for this. Try eharmony

Start doing things that you've always wanted to do, or things that you just really enjoy doing..

Ex. Take an art class, pick up an intrusment (guitar, piano, drums, whatever suits your fancy), join a club, whatever interests you. But don't do it for others, or because you think that it might be a great place to meet friends.. do it because it's something YOUR interested in, and something you want to do/try.

It sounds to me like you've got some insecurites within yourself, that you're kind of unsure of yourself.
In order to make friends (especially the good kind), and in order to really be a friend, you have first got to be a friend to yourself. (may sound corny/lame, but it's true)
It sounds like you kind mold into groups/people etc by association.. (your girlfriend of 3 years dumped you and as a result you lost all of your friends because they were hers... )

First you need to build yourself up, become YOUR OWN PERSON.
Discover yourself, you'll probably find that you're a pretty rad person, and that right there will get you feeling better already.

Second, focus on continuing to expand yourself, and the things you've discovered about yourself.. it will allow you to continue to "blossom" (lame word I know, but couldn't find a better term), into who you are. You will get to know yourself.. (right now, it sounds like you don't really know who you are, either). And once you really know yourself, it's much easier for others to get to know you and like you, too.

So, start thinking about things you like to do, things you're good at, things you enjoy, and things you've always wanted to do... start doing these things and you will find that people will be drawn to you.

There is a certain charisma and charm that comes from someone who knows who they are, and is confident in themselves.

Best of luck!

We all get lonely from time to time. You get out of life what you put into it. You are probable making little or no effort to make friends,

There are some people, that are just not good with social skills,
But that still should not stop you from making friends ;)

It would help if we knew how old you was

If I was talking to a 14 year old vs a 28 year old my advice would be very different.
You do sound young though
One of the dark brooding types ;)
Writing on the walls poems
Long hair in the face.
Pain is hot. Etc etc


You do need to build yourself up and become your own man
Its easy said than done though.