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    Nov 12, 2008, 01:50 AM
    Will I give him a second chance?
    I posted here about my b/f of 1.5 yrs who cheated on me with a woman he met in cyberspace. But my knowlede of his cheating came 3 days after I broke off with him( due to lack of communication and distance)I learned about this betrayal because this woman emailed me about her involvement with him about the same time we were together for also 1.5 yrs.But they split when my exbf learned that she let me know. They never met at all. After 2.5 months of no cantact he wants a second chance.He told me he never CHEATED because she was just an internet girlfriend I am his REAL girlfriend. He was sorry and guilty and will never EVER do such thing again.He told me he wants to spend the rest of his life with me and us be happy together. He told me he has a new house for him, his kids and me.He is decided to commit.My question:Will I give in to a second chance?Is CYBER CHEATING REALLY CHEATING?Well, matter of factly, when we were together,I never noticed he cyber cheated.It was only when I broke up with him that I knew about it.I still deeply care for him.Thank you guys again
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    Nov 12, 2008, 02:02 AM

    Cyber cheating I believe is still cheating! And for her to email you that and tell you, I believe is something to think about. But you never know , he might have changed. Maybe take things slow for now and see if he has changed. But look for red flags. Its all up to you and what would make you happy, now and in the future.
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    Nov 12, 2008, 07:24 AM

    Toss up question, can you ever trust him again? If the question is anything but yes, it will never work.

    My point of view is life isn't a rearview mirror so why keep looking back?
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