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    I don't think you are gay. You say she is...

    I don't think you are gay. You say she is beautiful, so you like her for her female appearance. However please take note that it's fairly easy to make a picture look good. You should wait until you...
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    You will get over it soon and probably become...

    You will get over it soon and probably become somewhat of a misogynist in the process. It's normal. About taking revenge, it's personal. As for revenge, it is very personal. When it's driven by anger...
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    Indeed, you should calmly tell him that their...

    Indeed, you should calmly tell him that their good relationship makes you feel uncomfortable and left out. There is often lingering attraction between exes. Unlike with friends and acquaintances it's...
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    You never have the "right" to feel anything. You...

    You never have the "right" to feel anything. You just do.
    You are being told you are loved, but you aren't given commitment. Does he guarantee you that he isn't going to date other girls? If he...
  5. When we are left by a loved one it is our...

    When we are left by a loved one it is our instinct to believe they were special. That out of 7 billion humans out there, they were, for some reason, absolutely unique and the best we can ever hope to...
  6. Doesn't the idea of moving on feel somehow...

    Doesn't the idea of moving on feel somehow refreshing? After such an involved relationship you finally have the chance to dedicate a lot more time to your interests and make friends. Pick up a sport,...
  7. It sounds to me like you were doing all you could...

    It sounds to me like you were doing all you could to make it work in the real world and in the long term. The stress of the job and the lack of raise kept you both tense and unable to live together...
  8. I will continue this exchange, as I feel it is...

    I will continue this exchange, as I feel it is useful to the thread opener as well:
    Emotional cheating entails being attracted to someone else other than your partner. Where does friendship stop and...
  9. I think that she was in denial. Having noticed...

    I think that she was in denial. Having noticed the shallowness of her own feelings, she was trying to "keep up" until she asked someone for help and they provided her with a rationalization good...
  10. Well, I hope I'm not violating some rules. I just...

    Well, I hope I'm not violating some rules. I just have yet to see a compulsive cheater being happy trying to change themselves. I figure everyone will give the obvious advice, so I might as well...
  11. Embrace the dark side. Years of therapy would...

    Embrace the dark side.

    Years of therapy would probably cause you to fall back into it from time to time, and many men would consider once unforgivable. Do you want to suffer for years to come?...
  12. Question: Is it okay

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    It's obviously okay. Women tend to wait to see if...

    It's obviously okay. Women tend to wait to see if the men care enough, as you said. This is because a man tends to flirt around with girls he doesn't particularly like too, while women tend to limit...
  13. I will start saying that this isn't rare or...

    I will start saying that this isn't rare or strange. It also doesn't have to be entirely your fault. She seems to have decided she doesn't want any relationship with you anymore. Her mind is set if...
  14. It is not illegal to date. It is illegal to have...

    It is not illegal to date. It is illegal to have sex until you reach your age of consent. To do so is to go against the rules, to think you know better than the law and the adults who's duty is your...
  15. He's using you. No matter how much of that is...

    He's using you. No matter how much of that is conscious and how much just "the way it works", the ultimate truth is that you are in love with the lies you chose to believe. He doesn't love you....
  16. I of course agree with the commenters before me,...

    I of course agree with the commenters before me, but I suspect you don't care about how mature you and him are. You want him. Well, there you have it, to win a shallow boy you need shallow ways....
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    Girls and boys seem to perceive female beauty...

    Girls and boys seem to perceive female beauty differently. You may be pretty but not "alluring" from a boy's perspective. That is actually not a bad thing, as you won't be showered with a mass of men...
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    I will tell you my situation even though it may...

    I will tell you my situation even though it may not be your case.

    I am a guy and I love a girl deeply. Before meeting her I had a girlfriend. I was very affectionate to her, we bought presents to...
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    If you show a girl you are readily available and...

    If you show a girl you are readily available and affectionate, she will judge you objectively for your assets, like attractiveness and charm. Unless you excel in both, she will dismiss you, or worse,...
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    I mostly agree with the others, but a guy who...

    I mostly agree with the others, but a guy who doesn't trust you with his problems probably doesn't understand the scope of your feelings for him, or isn't that involved with you himself. I'd say wait...
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    I'd show his messages and insistence to his male...

    I'd show his messages and insistence to his male friends, casually. Supposedly, they will tease him for it and he will feel too embarrassed to continue. Another idea would be to tell him you like...
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    How about explaining him that a token of your...

    How about explaining him that a token of your bond together, as a man to a woman, would make you truly happy, and that you want said bond to grow, because every time you would look at your ring, you...
  23. You are an affectionate, mature man, capable of...

    You are an affectionate, mature man, capable of sincere love (perhaps even too much). A man like you deserves the same level of affection that you are ready to give. It may be heartbreaking to accept...
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    Do you have no way of asking him about it? You...

    Do you have no way of asking him about it? You should always exchange alternative contacts in case something happens. If you two can communicate, but he is simply ignoring you, then I believe he may...
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