[browneyez1900]

My boyfriend of 3mths ids going through a lot right now. He asked me for a little alone time. Can I text? Or should I wait for him to call? I miss him constantly...

[amicon]

How long is this ''alone time'' going to last?

And why doesn't he want to share his troubles with you?

[kay1995]

Wait for him to call babe, guys can't always put across how they feel straight away so give it time and when he's ready , he will call you xx

[notinlove]

You should give him time off or else you may appear too pushy and drive him away anyway... if he is really into you he will call... else move on.

[Dreamer75]

I agree with @notinlove. I went tthrough the same thing 3 months of dating he shut down. I gave him space but did ask why he wasn't getting a hold of me and then he broke thing off ;( its been 2 years and I still miss him till this day

[VirtuousPlume]

I mostly agree with the others, but a guy who doesn't trust you with his problems probably doesn't understand the scope of your feelings for him, or isn't that involved with you himself. I'd say wait a few days at least, to show him you can give him space, then send a neutral text, on the level of "I hope you are okay, i'm sure you already know you can count on me if you need someone to talk to", without sounding clingy or needy and especially without asking him directly about his issues. In few words, just mention he can count on you, while showing him you care enough for him to give him space.