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    trent1renzer2 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Oct 14, 2014, 04:31 PM
    Why does my boyfriend always gets mad at me
    Hi my boyfriend gets mad at me and throws things at my face all the time. Saying that no one would want to be with me and he is still dealing with me.

    He got mad last night because I was sick and he did not care and wanted to see a show and I turned off the TV.

    He has this problem always getting mad for small reasons.
    What should I do?
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    Oct 14, 2014, 04:39 PM
    A question for you... why are you with someone who throws things at your face and speaks unkindly to you? How long have you been together?

    Was there more to the television situation? Is the television in your bedroom? Would you have been able to go into another room to rest or could he have gone into another room to watch television?
    It would be inconsiderate of both of you if he was watching tv in the bedroom if you were trying to rest, and it would have been inconsiderate of you if he were watching tv in another room and you just turned it off.
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    Oct 14, 2014, 06:52 PM
    Why do you put up with such crap? He does it because you take it and don't leave.
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    Oct 15, 2014, 07:04 AM
    He does it, because you allow it to happen.
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    Oct 15, 2014, 08:02 AM
    Tell him to go F himself and move on with your life. Nobody has to put up with this sort of abuse, and nobody is worth putting up with someone like that.
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    Oct 15, 2014, 08:07 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by trent1renzer2 View Post
    Hi my boyfriend gets mad at me and throws things at my face all the time. Saying that no one would want to be with me and he is still dealing with me.

    He got mad last night because I was sick and he did not care and wanted to see a show and I turned off the TV.

    He has this problem always getting mad for small reasons.
    What should I do?
    Succinctly? Leave him. Now. Don't look back. Don't pass go. Don't collect 200$.

    Him saying, "That no one would want to be with you or deal with you." Is mental abuse. He is trying to isolate you, lower your self-esteem and self-image, so that he can manage and control you. This is unacceptable behaviour on his part and you can't put up with this. I would usually try to figure out deeper reasons as to why he would be angry but they're irrelevant. You need to leave him now. This is just going to get worse and end in you being his servant/slave/brow beaten 'lil woman. I am sure this isn't what you want. This isn't healthy.
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