[Radp]

I lost m virginity about 3 months ago and it hurt for a few times to have sex, but the pain stopped. But now I have recently been feeling pain during and after sex, after sex it can be painful to urinate as well- help? I also notice that it is hard to turn me on, so could this be due to dryness? I don't partially enjoy foreplay and I'm never really overly that 'wet'- I do have sex when I'm 'not in the mood' and this can lead to it being even more painful- can someone explain what is simply going on and if it is a problem?

[smoothy]

I lay odds that the pain when you have it is because as you say... "not in the mood" meaning you weren't lubricating at all and that will cause that part. THe pain when you urinate however is a separate issue... adn might be a urinary tract infection. I would recommend seeing a doctor about that. Some women are more prone to those than others... and if he didn't wash before sex it greatly increases the chances of it happening for you.

[CravenMorhead]

Remember Lube. There is always time for lube. That is all I want to add to Smoothy's post. As well he needs to learn to love you and get you turned on. It isn't as easy to turn you on as it is to turn him on. It is a voyage of discovery, just because it doesn't crash upon the rocks.