[Jpuckett10]

I have been in a relationship with a 32 year old woman for almost three years. She is still married to her ex husband. She has a 4 years old daughter and is a bartender. She only sees her daughter about 30 hours a week. We met about my two weeks after her split with her husband. We dated and had a great relationship for about 11 months until the arguments started about her failure to get the divorce. Her job and her drinking always seemed to cause us problems. I'm 46 and was ready to move forward in the relationship.

After about a year and 10 months, we broke up. She started dating another guy within a few weeks. They dated for 4 months. We maintained contact during that time with her knowing I wanted her back. After they broke up, she came back to me. We dated for 5 months, the best months of our relationship! We were not drinking and we were focused on the church and God. In June, she started drinking heavily again. I took her on a cruise in late July. The week after the cruise she was telling me how great I am and how much she loved me and our relationship. Within the next week, we had a huge fight over a broken promise of hers. Things got so worse over nothing! She was going out drinking and partying almost everyday. We broke up.

She is now with in about 6 weeks dating another guy! I am so in love with her and want her back! I have finally stopped all contact with her. This is the longest I have ever gone without taking to her 12 days. What do I do? She has caused me so much anguish and almost got me fired over her drinking. I have tried to get over this, but I am having such a difficult time!

[talaniman]

Its only been 12 days. Its going to be rough but will get better over time if you keep her out of your life completely one day at a time.

Build a life without her in it because she is poison to you.