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    Sep 3, 2013, 11:10 PM
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    She told me to move on and leave her alone but is hard too I can't stop thinking of her but I stop talking to her no contact see if she get back with me lets see if this really works the no contact rule
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    Sep 3, 2013, 11:11 PM
    See if there's advice someone can help me out
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    Sep 3, 2013, 11:17 PM
    You have the no contact rule all wrong when you say let's see if this works to get her back. What makes you think no contact is supposed to make her want you back? It's supposed to make it easier for you to heal and get over her.

    If you keep in contact with someone after breaking up, it makes it harder for you to get over them. Let her go. She broke up with you and told you to leave her alone. Sounds like it's over.
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    Sep 3, 2013, 11:32 PM
    No contact isn't about getting someone back, it's about getting on with your life and forgetting about the person that doesn't want you back.

    What you're doing is playing games with your own mind.

    Until you realize it's over, you're going to be stuck right where you are.
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    Sep 4, 2013, 01:23 AM
    The no contact rule is just that, you can never get back with them, since you never contact them again. It allows you to move on with your life and helps you get over the other person

    It has nothing to do with getting them back.
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    Sep 5, 2013, 06:18 AM
    It might be a good time to figure out why the relationship failed.

    If you don't know what went so wrong, history is doomed to repeat itself with the next relationship.
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