[Random dude]

Ok so this really close friend of mine (Ima boy and she's a girl) were just hanging out at school
During or break. She told me she needed to tell me something in private. I followed her to the janitors room and she closed it. I asked her what she was doing and she pulled off her shirt. I got a big boner and she grabbed it. I left the room and went to class. I don't want our friendship to end what do I do. I don't want to hurt her feelings

[N0help4u]

You avoid private places with her. You avoid any advances she makes at you. You tell her you must be a bit shy as you found that embarrassing and you don't really appreciate it. You tell her you are flattered but you think of her as your sister.

[Random dude]

Thanks that's good advice. Ill tell her tomorrow.

[tickle]

You tell her you are flattered but you think of her as your sister.

God no help, do you really really think that will work!

[Alty]

She needs to learn how to keep her shirt on, and you need to learn to tell people when they put you in a situation you don't like. Tell her that what she did was inappropriate, and the next time you'll report her to a teacher or principal.

[N0help4u]

God no help, do you really really think that will work!

Yeah it works saying the 'kid sister' thing at the end... yeah it works!

[Cat1864]

You tell her you are flattered but you think of her as your sister.

Considering his physical response to her action, I don't think telling her he thinks of her as a sister, kid or otherwise, would be appropriate. That might be sending the wrong message especially if he has a sister.

Random, what were you discussing before she pulled this stunt? This sounds like a very strange event if all you were doing was hanging out by yourselves or with a group of friends.

Was she acting on a dare? Trying to get you to notice her? Playing a prank? If it was a dare/prank and aimed at making you feel embarrassed then I would suggest not saying anything. To say something would only add more incentive to tease.

Sometimes you just have to shake your head and walk away.

[N0help4u]

Yeah not saying anything and walking away works in a lot of situations.

[Random dude]

Well before this happened she was asking me about everyday stuff. Nothing special. I've talked to her about it, and is upset that I didn't like it (her you know, boobs)

God I'm so lost. I have no clue what to do.

[J_9]

You don't meet her in private places anymore. Just Say No, comes to mind.

[Fr_Chuck]

Not sure of their ages but if he got excited, of course he "liked" it. But likes the friendship better.

I may wonder, if she did it on a dare or something from some of her friends,
Or she may want more than friends, and this was her first move (a obvious one)

[N0help4u]

I think she just thought it would turn him on and get him to notice her and think maybe he might like her as girlfriend. Many teens think that attracting a guy or girl sexually is how to get a guy. She took it a step further than some.

[Oliver2011]

Well you could...

T-ry

R-easoning

O-n

L-overs

L-evel

That may work.

[N0help4u]

She'll get over it and if she doesn't she's shallow

[Random dude]

She'll get over it and if she doesnt shes shallow

Well basically she is just trying to turn me on, even though I asked her to stop, she's still doing similar things. The thing is that I like it, but I really don't want to get in trouble my parents don't know. She also wants to see my penis, I don't know, should I let her

[N0help4u]

No you do not let her. Next thing you know she's pregnant and you are in a line up for a paternity test. There is a big diffrrence between love and lust... Learn it!

[tickle]

She also wants to see my penis, I don't know, should I let her

You are asking for a bucket load of trouble if you let her. How much do you know about sex and women?

I can't think you are serious about all of this; little girls get pregnant you know and then where would you be? What would your parents think about that !

[ScottGem]

Just out of curiosity how old are you both supposed to be?