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Ok so this really close friend of mine (Ima boy and she's a girl) were just hanging out at school
During or break. She told me she needed to tell me something in private. I followed her to the janitors room and she closed it. I asked her what she was doing and she pulled off her shirt. I got a big boner and she grabbed it. I left the room and went to class. I don't want our friendship to end what do I do. I don't want to hurt her feelings
You avoid private places with her. You avoid any advances she makes at you. You tell her you must be a bit shy as you found that embarrassing and you don't really appreciate it. You tell her you are flattered but you think of her as your sister.
Thanks that's good advice. Ill tell her tomorrow.
God no help, do you really really think that will work!Quote:
Originally Posted by N0help4u
She needs to learn how to keep her shirt on, and you need to learn to tell people when they put you in a situation you don't like. Tell her that what she did was inappropriate, and the next time you'll report her to a teacher or principal.
Yeah it works saying the 'kid sister' thing at the end... yeah it works!Quote:
Originally Posted by tickle
Considering his physical response to her action, I don't think telling her he thinks of her as a sister, kid or otherwise, would be appropriate. That might be sending the wrong message especially if he has a sister.Quote:
Originally Posted by N0help4u
Random, what were you discussing before she pulled this stunt? This sounds like a very strange event if all you were doing was hanging out by yourselves or with a group of friends.
Was she acting on a dare? Trying to get you to notice her? Playing a prank? If it was a dare/prank and aimed at making you feel embarrassed then I would suggest not saying anything. To say something would only add more incentive to tease.
Sometimes you just have to shake your head and walk away.
Yeah not saying anything and walking away works in a lot of situations.
Well before this happened she was asking me about everyday stuff. Nothing special. I've talked to her about it, and is upset that I didn't like it (her you know, boobs)
God I'm so lost. I have no clue what to do.
You don't meet her in private places anymore. Just Say No, comes to mind.
Not sure of their ages but if he got excited, of course he "liked" it. But likes the friendship better.
I may wonder, if she did it on a dare or something from some of her friends,
Or she may want more than friends, and this was her first move (a obvious one)
I think she just thought it would turn him on and get him to notice her and think maybe he might like her as girlfriend. Many teens think that attracting a guy or girl sexually is how to get a guy. She took it a step further than some.
Well you could...
T-ry
R-easoning
O-n
L-overs
L-evel
That may work.
She'll get over it and if she doesn't she's shallow
Well basically she is just trying to turn me on, even though I asked her to stop, she's still doing similar things. The thing is that I like it, but I really don't want to get in trouble my parents don't know. She also wants to see my penis, I don't know, should I let herQuote:
Originally Posted by N0help4u
No you do not let her. Next thing you know she's pregnant and you are in a line up for a paternity test. There is a big diffrrence between love and lust... Learn it!
You are asking for a bucket load of trouble if you let her. How much do you know about sex and women?Quote:
Originally Posted by Random dude
I can't think you are serious about all of this; little girls get pregnant you know and then where would you be? What would your parents think about that !
Just out of curiosity how old are you both supposed to be?
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