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    Nov 21, 2012, 05:14 AM
    My girlfriend scared about sex
    Me and my girlfriend was love each other.. but she is scared about sex that she was not get preganent and scared about pain... but I want to to do sex with her what can I do to have sex with her... and she was not romantic also... I have do romance with her they want to to do romance with me but not do..?
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    Nov 21, 2012, 05:32 AM
    Take a cold shower, get your hormones under control and wait. Yea, she gets pregnant, it is not you having the baby, by then you are off with another girl friend, It is not you raising the baby.

    So what types of birth control is she on, have to be on birth control and use a condom, and even then there is a small chance of pregnancy.

    I would say she is not romantic, since you are too pushy about having sex. Sex is not romance, and does not have to be.
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    Nov 21, 2012, 08:24 AM
    You either wait until she is ready or move on. Sex is not just about you.
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    Nov 21, 2012, 09:22 AM
    How old are you two?
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    Nov 21, 2012, 09:41 AM
    What do you consider romance?
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    Nov 22, 2012, 12:30 AM
    Im not going to ask you any personal questions because that is your business... but if she isn't ready for it you need to back off. You know there are other alternatives to sex... Im not really comfortable saying them (im not ready for them odviously) but it could help get rid of some sexual tension... Just don't force her into doing something she doesn't want to do because it could ruin your whole relationship and if you really love her you can wait... if she does get pregnant it is going to be sooo scary and it is going to hurt and people will judge you... I get where she is coming from... she will be the one who has to deal with it and she is making a wise choice in my opinion
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    Nov 22, 2012, 12:58 AM
    Seems to me like you are making her scared by being so pushy about it. If you really love her you will wait until she's ready.
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    Dec 2, 2012, 08:26 PM
    Most girls hormones are more under control than boys. Yeah she does have a right to be scared. I've done it and I'm STILL scared about it. She is the smart one. WAIT until she is ready. Let her feel comfortable. BUT THE MAIN THING HERE IS IF U ARE UNDER 20 I WOULD SOOOOOOO WAIT OR EVEN BETTER YET WAIT TILL YOU GET MARRIED. Because it brings a lot of stress and it makes you guys argue over the littlest things because your nerves are on ends and that could ruin the relationship
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    Dec 2, 2012, 10:18 PM
    She's probably not ready to have a child, which means that she's not ready to have sex. If you care about her you'll back off and just enjoy being with her. Sex does not equal love or romance, but it does equal babies.
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