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    Rimya Hariharan Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Nov 6, 2012, 04:59 AM
    My friends want me to break up with someone
    My problem is complicated. My friends are asking to break friendship with a girl whom they find weird.They say it would help improve my personality. I'm confused. Can you help me?
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    Nov 6, 2012, 06:22 PM
    Is she a lot different from you, maybe a different religion or race? Why do they say that?
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    Nov 6, 2012, 07:22 PM
    Do you like the girl they want you to cut out? Does it matter what they think? Do you have a mind of your own, or do you want to do what they say just to be popular with them?

    It comes down to character, and who you want to be. The choice is yours.
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    Nov 6, 2012, 07:58 PM
    How old are you, it is one thing if you are 13 or 14, then normally it is a friend issue.

    If you are a adult, it is a issue that you need to look at the relationship
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    Nov 13, 2012, 04:04 PM
    Yo dude don't be a jerk like your friends are being. Tis girlcould be hurt because of what you do for doing nothing. Don't try to be popular by being mean. If you are nic then you will still be popular.
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    Nov 13, 2012, 08:06 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Mattdyd10003 View Post
    yo dude don't be a jerk like your friends are being. tis girlcould be hurt because of what you do for doing nothing. don't try to be popular by being mean. if you are nic then you will still be popular.
    Even though the spelling and sentence structure could use some work, and I beg you to work on it, I do agree. Dumping someone as a friend because other people tell you to, is the same as bullying.
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    Nov 13, 2012, 10:14 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by zhawilliam View Post
    What is your age? If you you are a adult, you really need to consider your relationship around you. You should think twice what kind of person you like and want to get on well with.
    I agree. From the writing, I'd guess that this person is a teenager, but she never did give us that information, so we really have nothing to go by. In fact, the information she gave didn't give us enough to offer a completely valid opinion.

    No matter what, I do think we can all safely say that any friends that tell you to dump another friend, are not people worth having in your life.
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    Nov 14, 2012, 07:19 PM
    Don't listen to your friends, they are being selfish. If you want to be this persons friend then be his/her friend
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    Nov 16, 2012, 04:03 AM
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