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    Oct 3, 2012, 08:20 AM
    Am I falling for my best girl friend? Or am I lonely because I never see my boyfriend
    I'm 24 years old. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost three years. We are VERY much in love, and plan on getting married... eventually. However, we have been in a long distance relationship since the beginning. This year has been the hardest so far. He just got a new job, and has had little to no time for me. He has been barely texting, or calling. So...
    I started spending more time with a friend from high school and his wife. One night, the three of us got drunk and had sex. (Yes, I told my boyfriend the day after it happened. We're fine.) She and I were VERY into it, and my guy friend was just kind of... there. I would be a liar if I said there wasn't some sexual tension between she and I. (We both agreed that the other is beautiful, and that we have a lot in common.) Since then... she and I have been damn near inseparable. I can't go a day without texting her, and when I get upset, she's the first person I want to see.

    However... I still have INCREDIBLY strong feelings for my boyfriend. Nothing has changed in our relationship. I still text him every morning to say I love you, regardless if he answers back. I want to be with him, so bad. But I can't help but feeling something for my friend because she makes me feel better when he's not around. Im not lonely when she's there, and when she hugs me, the pain goes away.
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    Oct 6, 2012, 08:57 PM
    I am in a long distance relationship\friendship right now. Ans I now how hard it is to maintain it sometimes. But all the hard work you've put into the relatio ship with your boyfriend, is it really worth giving up to some girl. She might be there for the meanwhile , but if you are really serious about this girl talk to your boyfriend about it . Communication?

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