Ask Experts Questions for FREE Help !
Ask
    secretAdmirer's Avatar
    secretAdmirer Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
    New Member
    		  
    #1

    Sep 16, 2012, 11:08 PM
    How do I approach a guy at work
    Hi guys!!

    I am 24 years old and I started my career 3 months in a software firm. I have really come to like a guy who hangs out in the cafeteria during breaks.He's alone most of the time and I guess he comfortable that way. I have been like observing him and I feel I have developed feelings for him. Im not sure if he has noticed because most of the times he takes the table next to mine or someplace where hez visible to me.I have literally stalked him in Facebook and I deleted the Friend request which I sent to him accidentally.Im really freaking out because I had crushes on guys but this guy is something.I want to strike a conversation with him but I'm not sure how! He seems to rude because hez a loner. Please help me!! I need to come out of this situation!!
    Wondergirl's Avatar
    Wondergirl Posts: 39,354, Reputation: 5431
    Jobs & Parenting Expert
    		  
    #2

    Sep 16, 2012, 11:17 PM
    It is not a good idea to have romantic relationships with coworkers. Since he hasn't acted interested, don't turn yourself into a stalker and get into legal trouble.

    You've been there only three months. Calm down!
    Homegirl 50's Avatar
    Homegirl 50 Posts: 10,794, Reputation: 2604
    Dating & Teen Expert
    		  
    #3

    Sep 17, 2012, 04:45 PM
    That is sounding a bit crazy, stalking him on face book.
    If he was interested in you, he would probably let you know, but why can you not send another friend request?
    ArmstrongMiller's Avatar
    ArmstrongMiller Posts: 164, Reputation: -1
    Junior Member
    		  
    #4

    Sep 20, 2012, 12:18 AM
    Be breave, You can be an initator. Come on.
    Homegirl 50's Avatar
    Homegirl 50 Posts: 10,794, Reputation: 2604
    Dating & Teen Expert
    		  
    #5

    Sep 20, 2012, 08:11 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by ArmstrongMiller View Post
    Be breave, You can be an initator. Come on.
    I think you mean "be brave, you can be an initiator"
    If you are going to give this as an answer to a lot of the questions you answer, at least spell it right.
    Thinklogical5's Avatar
    Thinklogical5 Posts: 8, Reputation: 1
    New Member
    		  
    #6

    Sep 20, 2012, 12:46 PM
    Well I'm a male, just be yourself, throw hints here and there that your interested in who he is, what he his and want to know more about him. Now it can backfire as well, I like this girl I work with but she still her ex but likes me as well.. Make sure he is single, don't have feelings for no body.. So u don't get hurt...
Not your question? Ask your question View similar questions
 

Question Tools Search this Question
Search this Question:

Advanced Search

Add your answer here.


Check out some similar questions!

How to approach a girl at work? [ 2 Answers ]

Hi. So here's the deal. I work as a security Guard at a hospital and there is that cute girl at the reception (when you dial 0 you reach that person, you know). I would like to ask her out to a bar or movie whatever. We already talked a bit, but I don't know her name yet etc. Once we ordered pizza...

How to approach a guy (at work) [ 4 Answers ]

A couple of months ago I started noticing a co-worker who works in a different department. He works in a visitor relations job in a public outside area where I usually go during breaks to make personal calls (I don't get cell reception anywhere else). For a few weeks I noticed him looking at me...

How to approach this guy at lan [ 6 Answers ]

Ok, before anyone laughs their butts off, this is a serious question. I'm 20 and recently I've seen this girl I like at an internet café. Yes, like all would assume, it might be 'geek central' in your mind. But there arnt a lot of nerds because basically its just a place to chill out in my...

How to approach a girl at work [ 13 Answers ]

I have been talking to a girl at work for a while now, and I have developed some feelings for her, and I would like to ask her out on a date, but there are few things that's holding me back; first I don't know how and when to approach her. Second, I don't want her to file a complaint against me for...

How To Approach a Guy [ 3 Answers ]

Well to be honest I have not had the problem of approaching guys or going for what I want. Since HS started I have been seeing this guy in the hallways and Lunch, I've tried to gather the courage in order to approach him, but I can't bring myself to do it. I've wanted to say 'hey' but I just...

View more questions Search