Hi guys!!

I am 24 years old and I started my career 3 months in a software firm. I have really come to like a guy who hangs out in the cafeteria during breaks.He's alone most of the time and I guess he comfortable that way. I have been like observing him and I feel I have developed feelings for him. Im not sure if he has noticed because most of the times he takes the table next to mine or someplace where hez visible to me.I have literally stalked him in Facebook and I deleted the Friend request which I sent to him accidentally.Im really freaking out because I had crushes on guys but this guy is something.I want to strike a conversation with him but I'm not sure how! He seems to rude because hez a loner. Please help me!! I need to come out of this situation!!

It is not a good idea to have romantic relationships with coworkers. Since he hasn't acted interested, don't turn yourself into a stalker and get into legal trouble.

You've been there only three months. Calm down!

That is sounding a bit crazy, stalking him on face book.
If he was interested in you, he would probably let you know, but why can you not send another friend request?

Be breave, You can be an initator. Come on.

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Originally Posted by ArmstrongMiller

Be breave, You can be an initator. Come on.

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I think you mean "be brave, you can be an initiator"
If you are going to give this as an answer to a lot of the questions you answer, at least spell it right.

Well I'm a male, just be yourself, throw hints here and there that your interested in who he is, what he his and want to know more about him. Now it can backfire as well, I like this girl I work with but she still her ex but likes me as well.. Make sure he is single, don't have feelings for no body.. So u don't get hurt...