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    Aug 4, 2012, 07:35 AM
    My boyfriend is violent towards me.
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    Aug 4, 2012, 07:37 AM
    Get out now! He has you brainwashed into thinking his violence is in some way your fault. The violence is a tendency he has within him, drinking or not. For your safety, get out and get counseling for yourself.
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    Aug 4, 2012, 09:45 AM
    Two drunks fighting is par for the course, but if you are sober and he is drunk then guess what, he will still act up and possibly hurt you. But now you will know that him and alcohol don't mix, never did. NOW WHAT?

    If he won't stop drinking will you leave? Foolish to think you can control a violent drunk. He won't remember hurting you, but you will.
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    Aug 4, 2012, 10:38 AM
    And when he hits you a few times, just remember it is because he loves you. When he stops you from various things, if is for your own good.

    You know the answer or you would not have asked. You want someone to agree with you to make you feel better about leaving him.

    You need to get out and get out fast.
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