[iRibb0n]

Hi , so I'm 12! Years old girl and my parents want me to get married to a guy who is 14! I mean not in this age but they are dealing me with him . ( as my mom told me they already dealt us when we were kids! They want me to get married when I'll be 14/15! like in 17/18 century!! ) I'm really really stressed , I'm not muslim , I'm christian but they act like its 17/18 century!! Its 21 century! I saw him only at balls ( family , or christmas parties ) but I knew him and his family . I feel really bad , when my parents said : Meet your Fiancé. That guy and his parents were with him I was like shocked and I cried: what! that guy looked like he was confused and stressed too . Like he was at a loss . When I said NO to them , his mother smiled and said :that is a natural reaction sweetheart . And hugged me . Than we went to another room and she said to me : I like you carnelia very much , I want you to be my Daughter- in- law because I know you from your childhood and your family your very good girl and I'm sure we'll be friends.. this looked so like in a dream! I feel really bad about this topic . :(((( , its so mean , I cried a lot about this topic . Please help! :((

[Wondergirl]

This was a dream or nightmare you had last night?

In which country do you live?

[iRibb0n]

This was a dream or nightmare you had last night?

No I meant its was so unreal , I through that it was a dream.

[Wondergirl]

Is this standard operating procedure in your country or region?

[iRibb0n]

Is this standard operating procedure in your country or region?

Its not , but you know old families . We are religious.

[Wondergirl]

its not , but you know old families . we are religious.

It's not a Christian tradition, at least not since Bible times.