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  • Aug 1, 2012, 01:07 PM
    iRibb0n
    My parents want me to get married!!
    Hi , so I'm 12! Years old girl and my parents want me to get married to a guy who is 14! I mean not in this age but they are dealing me with him . ( as my mom told me they already dealt us when we were kids! They want me to get married when I'll be 14/15! like in 17/18 century!! ) I'm really really stressed , I'm not muslim , I'm christian but they act like its 17/18 century!! Its 21 century! I saw him only at balls ( family , or christmas parties ) but I knew him and his family . I feel really bad , when my parents said : Meet your Fiancé. That guy and his parents were with him I was like shocked and I cried: what! that guy looked like he was confused and stressed too . Like he was at a loss . When I said NO to them , his mother smiled and said :that is a natural reaction sweetheart . And hugged me . Than we went to another room and she said to me : I like you carnelia very much , I want you to be my Daughter- in- law because I know you from your childhood and your family your very good girl and I'm sure we'll be friends.. this looked so like in a dream! I feel really bad about this topic . :(((( , its so mean , I cried a lot about this topic . Please help! :((
  • Aug 1, 2012, 01:15 PM
    Wondergirl
    This was a dream or nightmare you had last night?

    In which country do you live?
  • Aug 1, 2012, 01:17 PM
    iRibb0n
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    This was a dream or nightmare you had last night?

    No I meant its was so unreal , I through that it was a dream.
  • Aug 1, 2012, 01:22 PM
    Wondergirl
    Is this standard operating procedure in your country or region?
  • Aug 1, 2012, 01:27 PM
    iRibb0n
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    Is this standard operating procedure in your country or region?

    Its not , but you know old families . We are religious.
  • Aug 1, 2012, 02:15 PM
    Wondergirl
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by iRibb0n View Post
    its not , but you know old families . we are religious.

    It's not a Christian tradition, at least not since Bible times.

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