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    Aug 1, 2012, 03:06 AM
    Help me? Why is my best friend acting like that?
    We've been hanging out together for the past year.
    We both had that in our minds, we even wanted to do sex earlier but I didn't let him go too far because he is a married man and last Saturday we were kind of too high on E and we had sex but we both decided not to tell to anybody.
    My best friend is married and has 2 kids. But our relanioship is amazing, I mean we're best friends and we never want to lose that (That's what we both say) the sex was amazing that night. We both had great fun and were surprised by each others sex performance lool.
    Anyway, My "X" friend wanted my best friends number which I gave him and he arranged to meet up with him and my "X" friend asked for my phone number from my best friend. After that he called me to invite to our "A" Common friend house just to chill,relax and hang out. My best friend called me after a bit and asked me if I was going with our "x" friend to that house. I said yes and he said oh OK I was thinking if you wanted to come and chill with me and 2 other friends. But he sounded kind of disappointed. The funny thing is that I called him earlier to drink coffee with few other friends but he didn't answer and didn't return my call.

    Why is my best friend acting like that?
    Do you think he has feelings for me or he just wanted to hang out?
    We both don't want nothing more with each other it would be too complicated with his family and our friends, at least that's what we both agreed to.
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    Aug 1, 2012, 04:46 AM
    I'm not following this story with an X and an A friend involved. I'm not sure it matters - I don't see how we can possible know what someone is thinking who isn't even the one writing to this site! But as for your 'best friend' who is married, I'd suggest that you cool it.
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    Aug 1, 2012, 05:34 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by joypulv View Post
    I'm not following this story with an X and an A friend involved. I'm not sure it matters - I don't see how we can possible know what someone is thinking who isn't even the one writing to this site! But as for your 'best friend' who is married, I'd suggest that you cool it.
    I just find it weird, because it is the 2nd-3rd time he asked me something like that. He'd never ask where I'd go and then ask me to hang out with him instead.
    I want to cool it off because before the sex we had great fun and we never wanted to change the relationship, and we'll always have thoughts for that night. I just want to make sure he feels the same and I don't want to ask him, because I don't want to sound to him that since then I see our friendship changing.

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