Dear Sir,
I am very much confused in these months. I am engaged now for 2 1/2 years. I had prayed Istikhara to make a decision and then I got engaged.
The family of my fiancé told me that she is educated but at the beginning I looked at her virtue and not her face and education although I find educational background very important. Now it seems that we have communication problems and she argue about the things that do not make sense (maybe I am wrong but according to me we argue about the things that matters not important).
My Question is:
I want to marry in an islamic way, but my family in law is not agree with this. They want to do the things which are unislamic. I do not have so much knowledge but I d not want to spend and waste money on things which are only show.
Please advice me what I have to do. What is the best way (Islamic) of marriage in Islam and if they do not agree what I have to do.
Sincerely yours
Naveed
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