Sallam brother, I have a question to ask on behalf of someone else. There is this couple who has been married for over ten years and have 3 kids. The husband loves the kids and wife and is very committed, the wife takes good care of the family, on the surface, they seem like a very happy couple. One day the husband confieded in someone that the wife does sleep with him, he claims she only sleeps with him when she wanted to have babies... what should he do, he loves his kids, and does not want to leave, he is also scared of her and is not happy to be with her, what should he do?? thank you.

Assaamou alicom brother
Dear brother
Sexual relations is a right from the man on his wife and a right of the wife on her husband, Rasula Allah (may peace and blessings be upon him) has said that it`s even considered a donation or kind of charity. So I believe and Allah knows best that the couple should sit down and communicate first about their problems talk openly about it, they must must franc with each other maybe she`s not giving him what he wants for some good reason he needs to find out why, most women they don`t like to be treated like a piece of meat you bite into it when you are hungry but rather they like to be shown love, kindness and affection before the act. As Rasula Allah said in the sunnah play with your wife and she plays with you meaning before the act.
I hope this helped brother.
Assalamou alicom

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Dear Sir,
I am very much confused in these months. I am engaged now for 2 1/2 years. I had prayed Istikhara to make a decision and then I got engaged.
The family of my fiancé told me that she is educated but at the beginning I looked at her virtue and not her face and education although I find educational background very important. Now it seems that we have communication problems and she argue about the things that do not make sense (maybe I am wrong but according to me we argue about the things that matters not important).
My Question is:

I want to marry in an islamic way, but my family in law is not agree with this. They want to do the things which are unislamic. I do not have so much knowledge but I d not want to spend and waste money on things which are only show.
Please advice me what I have to do. What is the best way (Islamic) of marriage in Islam and if they do not agree what I have to do.
Sincerely yours
Naveed

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