[feelininsecure]

My boyfriend and I are in a fairly new relationship. It's been about three months. Our relationship is amazing. We laugh always have fun together and he's extremely affectionate and loving. He tells me I'm beautiful on a daily basis and we spend just about every day together. The problem... we barely have sex. It's been two weeks and I'm starting to get frustrated and insecure. I'm afraid to talk to him about this because of past experiences that make me feel even more insecure... someone please give me any kind of advice.

[Wondergirl]

Hmmmm, back in the olden days when rocks were still cooling, we waited until our wedding night to have sex. I close my eyes for a few minutes, and now we have sex after the first hello?

Get to know each other. Don't worry about sex right now. It sounds like he adores you and really respects you.

[joypulv]

Do you have any idea how many women wish they had a man who was affectionate and romantic without a lot of sex? Most of the time it's too much sex with no romance.

This has me worried that there is a generation of women now that requires sexual desire from a man to feel beautiful.

However, you are not 'other women' so I'm not being fair. After 3 months you should be able to talk about whatever is on your mind - period. If you want to ask him if your sex life is OK or something is lacking, ask him. If you want to tell him you are sort of wondering what it all means, tell him.

[smoothy]

I bet he has either had a pregnancy scare with another girlfriend in the past... or has had close friends whose girlfriends became pregnant... and yes... you can cat pregnant even WITH birth control.

[JudyKayTee]

What exactly does "barely have sex" mean? Infrequently? You want intercourse and that's not happening? Something else?