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    SandieeBabeey Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Aug 3, 2011, 11:57 PM
    Fertility question
    Okay so I have a question and I'm not asking to be judged or attacked for asking this I'm just curious,
    Anyway, so me and my boyfriend have been having unprotected sex, I know its not good and we quit doing it, but we did it for two months in a row and he came in me A lot in those two months, I got my period and everything, but do you think maybe he can't have babies? Because that's what we thought, I mean I was happy that I wasn't pregnant but this might be bad in the long term picture beecause I lovee him and would like to have a family with him one day, Answers please?
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    redhed35 Posts: 4,221, Reputation: 1910
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    Aug 4, 2011, 12:06 AM

    It probably just means you were both lucky.

    Every time you have sex you take the risk of becoming pregnant, even condoms are not 100% effective in protecting against pregnancy.

    It would be very irresponsible of me not to say, don't have sex until you are emotionally,mentally and financially ready to become a parent.
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    Aug 4, 2011, 12:16 AM
    You are very lucky. You must have went through your menstrual cycle at that time. Please where protection at all time.

    -Jenny
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    Aug 4, 2011, 03:01 AM

    Getting impregnated is basically a crap shoot. For some people they can become pregnant from the smallest amount of semen. Others it may be more difficult.

    There is no way we can judge your or your boyfriends fertility based on what you have told us. If this is a concern, then you should BOTH get tested by a fertility specialist.

    However, even if there is an issue that doesn't preclude raising a family. There are many alternatives.

    P.S. for future reference please be more thoughtful about how you post. We know you want an answer and help that's why you post here. But the subject area is for a short description of your question to attract people who may be able to help, so I changed it for you. Also where you post is important. This isn't a dating issues, but a health issue, so it was moved to the proper forum. Finally, please post only once. I've merged your two threads for you.
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    Aug 4, 2011, 03:48 PM

    It can take the average couple up to 2 years to conceive, once they start actively trying, documenting ovulation, etc. etc.

    You got lucky. That doesn't mean that your luck will hold. If you keep having sex without protection then you will end up pregnant sooner or later.

    Remember that even with protection, pregnancy is possible. There is no birth control method on the market that's 100% effective, and even using 2 or more methods at a time isn't 100% safe.

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