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sana6 · Aug 3, 2011, 02:52 AM

Hi friends..

I'm an Indian female of age 22, and my English boyfriend was 34. We met in India itself. He fell in love with me and we started meeting each other on daily bases. But I was not ready to be in a relationship with him as he was a Britisher, and my past experiences. He came to Delhi for me a took a flat in Delhi. He also extended his visa.

We were in a relationship for 20 months and when things were not good between us he always used to say that things are not working between us. I always convinced him that we can make this work. He started telling me that I'm immature. He started dominating me. He also told me that he wants to marry me and spend the rest of his life with me.

But recently we were having lots of problem in the relationship and he decided to break up with me, but I didn't want that, so I convinced him not to break up. I could see a change in his feelings towards me. We then planned to go to Goa, where he is living right now. We had a good time there but also were facing lot of issues. There he broke up with me telling me that this is not working, and left me all alone. I had to come back all alone from there to Delhi. He never contacted me.

What should I do? I'm hurt and shattered! I really wanted this to work. Its been 3 weeks we haven't spoken to each other. What should I do? Should I wait for him to come back, or move on?

amicon · Aug 3, 2011, 03:27 AM

He broke up with you so you move on-stay with the no contact and heal from the break up.

His actions speak a volume-it's over.

talaniman · Aug 3, 2011, 11:24 AM

You move on, because he is beyond convincing. His actions are very clear, he wanted to move on and did. You do the same.

WinterMelody · Aug 25, 2011, 02:15 AM

Try to find him!You may have a chance now but later I don't think so.Feelings are not able to die in 3 weeks.Girl try to get your happiness back.If you don't you are going to feel guilty for the rest of your life.

mmresd · Aug 25, 2011, 06:26 PM

This one seems easy, he has broken up with you and although it may seems hard to get over him at this point, you are going to have to let time heal your wounds and keep NO Contact until you are completely over him, and then some. You don't want someone like that in your life, since the beginning he has told you that this wouldn't work out, you have persistently though you "convinced" him to stay. To him, you probably made him felt sorry for you and for that reason he was nice enough to stay, but he realized that enough is enough so he moved on. Now it is your turn, he has had all this time to forget you and you have demanded him to acompany you in the period that you should have used to heal. This relationship is done, so be done with it in your mind and start moving on.